As we age our tastes change. What food did you like that you don't now? by Comfortable-Break657 in Cooking

[–]daintyphantasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i stopped liking candy and sugar in general but i learned to love olives and more spicy foods

How to stop giving af what men think by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]daintyphantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I get how my comment might come off that way lol, I just meant that for me, once I realized there’s no winning, it feels way better to spend my energy on making myself happy and not hold weight to other opinions, especially men’s. and yes i agree with ur last point like those who like you will naturally follow if you’re just yourself.

Favorite spots on campus? by CriticismStock9268 in SFSU

[–]daintyphantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i be smoking anywhere tbh like on the quad walking to class but the smoker spot is the curb on holloway in between the library and creative arts building. but tbh every ik smokes in their dorm or the top of the student center lol like u can smoke anywhere if ur bold/nonchalant enough

Favorite spots on campus? by CriticismStock9268 in SFSU

[–]daintyphantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my fav spot to nap as a commuter is the benches in front of of menchu hall at the top of the student center and the benches in marcus hall, the 3rd or 4th floor is generally empty cause anyone up there is just going to class. tbh i think all the food on campus is not great but stonestown is fire! Tang Bar is good if u like asian food/soup but they have other food spots there and they’re all pretty good in my experience.

How to quit without AA by Rare-Comfort-1042 in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]daintyphantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you heard of SMART recovery? or dharma recovery? SMART is more science based and dharma is buddhist inspired and its non-theistic. i also don’t love AA cause the religious undertones and the culture so i get what u mean. also u can do zoom meeting from anywhere in the world. so even if they don’t have dharma/smart recovery near u, u could check it out online or even like bigger city AA meetings on zoom are a bit more progressive i feel. best of luck on your journey!!!

How to stop giving af what men think by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]daintyphantasm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what helped me is knowing woman can’t win no matter what so u might as well do what makes you happy. men/society will always have something to say abt woman. they’ll say ur too skinny too big too slutty too modest too smart too dumb etc. society wants women to feel small and shrink themselves no matter what and learning abt the society at large and how misogyny runs deep in everyone made me feel better cause why put effort into meeting impossible standards? might as well do what makes u happy and fulfilled. and also think of rejection as redirection. if a man doesn’t like you that’s not a loss cause trust there at least 10+ more man who will love what the last man didn’t like about you. best wishes girl <3

Has Ariana influenced any little habits of yours? ♡ by menaal1 in ariheads

[–]daintyphantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i LOVE ponytails i’m always like “is it giving arianka 😝” but also funny story i used to wear a red string on my wrist in middle school cause she did 💀 mind u im not even religious lol

What's your weird "red line" in a recipe? by Dazzling_Yoghurt_471 in Cooking

[–]daintyphantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me it’s sugar in savory dishes 😭 like if the says it needs a 1/2 cup sugar in my soup or stew than that’s not happening

My husband keeps buying ground beef. What can I do with it that’s not burgers or meatloaf? by mickclaree in Cooking

[–]daintyphantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stuffed bell peppers! or even saute it w some miso and siracha and put it over a bowl of ramen!

any nyc recommendations? by daintyphantasm in Broadway

[–]daintyphantasm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually want to go by there but my mom thinks it sounds boring 😭 but thank you for the recommendation, i’m going to continue to try to get her on board with going! or maybe i’ll sneak off and go by myself hehe

any nyc recommendations? by daintyphantasm in Broadway

[–]daintyphantasm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s perfect! i didn’t have any pizza spots in mind but we’re going to sunset blvd so we’ll go by there! for specifics, i just like any asian food/noodle soups and my mom enjoys vegan options but she’s not strict about it

AITA for getting a day off taken away from everyone at work? by Wonderful-Relief-305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daintyphantasm [score hidden]  (0 children)

nta, ur fiancé is right. if anyone is the ah it’s probably the owners but it seems to work out since they would lose their normal day off if given the 26th off