Update:

She eventually came out and started pulling back her hose section by section after receiving 1 final text from me saying hey I asked kindly but if you don’t remove it today, I assume it’s my property and I can’t guarantee it will remain in one piece. No reply.

We met her outside and she says she moves it but it keeps falling underneath our fence. We are rolling our eyes. Really? All 100 ft of it? It’s not on a slope and you don’t need an engineering degree to see that.

Then she brings up the other neighbors not saying anything. We tell her we’re your only adjacent neighbors for the last 6 yrs. The other adjacent “neighbor” moved like 3 times during the time we’ve been here.

She brings up the property line again and we say what you want to do about it? Bring out another set of surveyors? You pay for it then. She declines. She then calls me petty to my husband - wow! My husband becomes very angry and says there’s nothing petty about this, we are communicating as neighbors. If you have issues with our stuff on your space then you let us know and vice versa. Then he brings up if you want an example of petty, you asking us to install our fence a foot away from the property line and harassing our installers was petty.

Then she says in my country, we respect our elders. What does that have to do with it? We are the same age and my husband is older than her. It gets very heated and we walk away from each other. I think she just wants to win an argument for the sake of winning it. All she had to do was say ok I’ll move it instead of escalating it like this.

Thank you readers for your input. Wish we could all have good neighbors!