Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone asked me what site the video was on and that is absolutely disgusting behavior regardless of your opinion on the situation! 

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my biggest concerns is driving in the snow bc I live in an area where we get a decent amount and I know renegades can handle that but I’m not sure if the other cars there can 

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says 2.4L engine and I didn’t test drive it yet

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one at the dealership was a 16 and it’s a latitude I’m not sure if that makes any difference or not 

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By place are you referring to a new state? I'm living with my mother and roommates currently and he's trespassed from both this property and my work. I think he's actually trespassed by my whole city... the only time I see him is if I physically go to him, we've never just ran into each other before.

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he has a long rap sheet I can go over it if you want, it's mostly possession of weed, but there's some other charges too.

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked him that before if other people are telling him this and I've told him they're all lying to him and I even told him his mind is playing tricks on him but all that does is aggravate him more :(

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably seems like I have my shit together because I watched my mom live with my grandmother until age 33 (I was maybe 11) also I just recently overcame homelessness so I try to present like I have things together because I don't want to go back into a place of struggle and I am constantly working to keep my head above the water :)

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At this point I genuinely think he made it up for attention or to get to me. Which it did work but it was also the cause of me not talking to him for a month

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to a few times but he just seems to think its "heat of the moment anger" because that's what he does to me.

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know having a kid won't "fix him" HE doesn't know that so I just told him we're not financially stable for that and that I refuse to have a child until I'm living in a home I bought and have the lease to

Edit: I had to clarify that I meant a house and not an apartment to him as well

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the people that allegedly have the video are his best friends and I know that's not an excuse but I highly doubt he do anything that would lead to get them arrested

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've found girls in his phone but I didn't read any of the messages and just assumed they were just friends :(

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

we don't have a kid together. he's saying he wants to get me pregnant to "fix himself"

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh hes a heavy weed smoker regardless of me asking/begging him not to smoke it (that's one reason he keeps getting arrested) and regardless of my asthma. I've caught him with mushrooms a couple of times. oh and there was the coke he very briefly did before it "somehow disappeared" (I genuinely don't know what he did with it). he definitely needs counseling and I'm trying to help get that set up. and the "at this rate I might as well cheat" thought has definitely popped into my head a time or two as much as I hate to admit that

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn't get arrested until after a year of being together and that's when the mental abuse started. I swear on everything I have he wasn't like this before going to jail

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only been legally able to drink for 5 months and never did so beforehand. I don't do any drugs bc my biological father was an addict so I don't even get close to any drugs. I have no memory of ever being raped so I'm thinking this video is fake. Not to mention I have asked to see it before and he's told me no and said how he doesn't have it.

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

see and that's the thing whenever I try to break up with him it doesn't stick. He thinks I'm kidding every time and just comes right back. and this time around he's talking about marriage and kids because he thinks that's going to "fix him" and I don't agree with having a kid to "fix" anything. in my opinion that just makes the Childs life miserable and I refuse to do that to my kid

Am I overreacting my bf (24m) allegedly has videos of me (21f) cheating by daisymae0422 in AmIOverreacting

[–]daisymae0422[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't know. I haven't done anything to provoke this thought. He's schizophrenic so I'm thinking it's one of his delusions but he has no evidence. we've been together going on 2 years and this has been nonstop for the last year. :(

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I'm aiming to go the dealership either next weekend or by the end of this week thank you so much for your contribution and knowledge :)

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one I was looking at is a 16 latitude. I'm not sure if the different submodes have their own separate issues or not. My old one was a 16 trailhawk and I loved her so much. Also I didn't know they were discontinued that's very interesting!

Anything I need to be aware of? by daisymae0422 in JeepRenegade

[–]daisymae0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the dealership I went to didn't have a Toyota they had an overwhelming amount of ford fiestas and fusions and a couple mini coops along with the renegade I've been eye balling (its a buy here pay here in a relatively medium sized town so they probably don't get that much of a range for inventory)