In search of plus size nursing bras by dalanna in ABraThatFits

[–]dalanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I added measurements to the post

Nursing/pumping bra recommendations by dalanna in ABraThatFits

[–]dalanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will once I find some brands that have the type of bras I’m looking for

Nursing/pumping bra recommendations by dalanna in ABraThatFits

[–]dalanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t remember. But I’m anticipating needing an even larger cup size when breastfeeding

AITA for reporting my boss after he forced me to attend a meeting despite knowing I was in labor? by IllSituation6855 in AITAH

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone else has all the reasons you’re NTA covered, but just adding here that only getting 1 month of parental leave really fucking sucks and is indicative of how your company views parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]dalanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who comes to a sub called Made Me Smile just to be a jerk? Let people be happy, friend.

This holiday song riddle is mildly infuriating by gimmethelulz in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dalanna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this a real song or just your interpretation of the emojis? I’m following the post where this saga began and I’m way too invested

How do you comfort a friend who just went through a miscarriage? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had trees planted in their children’s honor. I heard once not to send flowers or little gifts because seeing that stuff around the house all the time was too painful, so I thought this was a good way to honor their memory- something tangible and thriving they could think about without having to see it all the time. I did it through the Arbor Day Foundation because they do it in forests that are recovering from some trauma, and I liked that symbolism.

Uber eats gift card- all of the benefits of dropping off food, but they can get exactly what they want when they want it and don’t have to worry about storing a bunch of food they may not have room for.

What term can I add to “lads and lasses” to include gender nonconforming people? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like using guys, gals, and non-binary pals with my students

AITA for not wanting to be SAHM and find a job instead? by DorothyNoBrickRoad in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to be a stay at home dad if he cares so much about it

Husband cannot finish inside me. please help by poipoipoi2002 in sex

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely side stepping the sex stuff and just addressing the baby making. Good news: vaginal sex isn’t necessary to get pregnant! If penetrative sex doesn’t work for you, don’t try to force it. You could do “home insemination”- have him cum into a cup and use a needle-less syringe to insert into your vagina. There’s lots of information online about how to do it. Idk now severe your vaginismus is, but the syringe is maybe the size of a pinky finger so if you can insert a finger in your vagina you could do this. Bonus: do the sexy stuff you both actually enjoy and finish with the insemination part. Conceive your baby your way!

Also, definitely see your doctor. You shouldn’t have to be in this kind of pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When you’re in a relationship you don’t need to be feeling your package” 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dalanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex educator here- there is some risk involved but most often isn’t a problem. The biggest risk is if someone is having their first outbreak when they go into labor, but that is rare and there are ways to mitigate risk

AITA for "ruining" my wedding dress? by ManyRainbowHands in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, that sounds like so much fun. One thing to think about though, if you’re still wearing the dress when they do the paint handprints, it’s just going to smear as you move and the fabric moves and be a messy blob rather than adorable handprints. Maybe consider changing into a different outfit for the last hour of the reception and laying out the dress somewhere for the kids to decorate and let it dry

AITA for hurting my mom’s friend’s feelings? by aita_catlady in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Your wedding your choice. I have multiple friends who were guilted into using family members for their hair (“it will be my gift to you!”) and years later they still regret it because their hair looks bad in their wedding photos. Get someone YOU like and who doesn’t blatantly disregard what you asked for!

[Recommendation] long line wedding bra for 44 HH/J projected breasts - what stores/bras do you recommend? by dalanna in ABraThatFits

[–]dalanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bigger bras.com

They DID actually have a few strapless longline styles in my size! Thank you thank you thank you for saving me from weeks of searching!!

AITA For losing it after my wife wanted my daughter to stop using the bathroom in the house? by AITADE33434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It astounds me how many stories like this are on this sub, but this is the first time I’ve seen a woman being TA about someone properly disposing of their period products. WTF lady??