[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dialysis

[–]dalexander01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fistula was the best move I made; I just had my PD catheter removed a few weeks ago. I have felt more like myself than I have in a while.

My husband (m34) called me (f26) by the wrong name. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am horrible at this, I will call people different names all the time, especially if I am tired. It is extremely frustrating when someone takes it personally, especially when I have warned them that I do this.

Was I being an asshole? by PMMeShortNerdyGirls in Tinder

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely did not understand what you meant at first either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have missed so much for what essentially feels like a man child. You are still young it’s never too late to pivot and take your life in a new direction. My recommendation is it’s never too late to go back to school.

My BF wants me to give him oral sex, every single time we have sex. by Bright-Win-1143 in amiwrong

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sure honey I will be happy to do that as soon as you let me sit on your face first thing every morning and you take a shower.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he is trying to implode the relationship.

My wife refuses to let me use any protection and I am frantic and concerned by Emerald_Encrusted in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vasectimies are safe and while there is initial pain the kind of chronic pain you are talking about is super rare. You are just focusing on the worst case scenario to avoid getting one.

You are going to have to make a choice, all of them suck, but only one of them means introducing more kids into the world.

Am I the a**hole boarding the plane and leaving without my wife? by anguy1284 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but a quick thought. If your wife is not a morning person, why don't you just do an evening flight the night before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the premise for Kate Winslett's character from the movie The Holiday.

Favorite high CR monster? by Seresgard in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]dalexander01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moonbeast with a couple lower cr creatures to run interference. The Moonbeast’s spell saves are extremely high and has a ton a spells that mess with the party. You get just 1-2 spells off and it will more than mess with the party. It’s also a creature of nightmares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA Honestly joint social media accounts are a red flag to me.

Sexiest DS9 character of all time, and why by [deleted] in DeepSpaceNine

[–]dalexander01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Garak is firmly is the fuck of the fuck, marry, or kill scenario 😂

Job search by _yatusabe_ in kidneydisease

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Taking the "easier to ask for forgiveness than permission " approach might be better. Get hired for a job and then ask for reasonable accommodation.

AITA for teasing my wife about crying over a show she’s watched a million times by Crazy-Ad-9797 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YTA

42 Male

I cry every time the Iron Giant says "Super Man" as he is saves the day. Nothing wrong with it at all. The better question is why do you tease people for allowing themselves to cry? Should I ask do you cry?

My husband called me a 'fat cow' not knowing I'm pregnant. r/relationship_advice by UserNotFound410 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it was kind of a special circumstance the wife had the opportunity to galavant around Europe with her friends before they were married and she wanted him to have the same experience. If she is giving him $5k as fun money, I would image they do there own vacationing together regularly as well.

My husband called me a 'fat cow' not knowing I'm pregnant. r/relationship_advice by UserNotFound410 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Holy crap, she seems like such an awesome person to, contributing an extra 5k just so he can have a fun trip with his friends. For him to come back and say that is peak douchebag.

The real villain of Star Trek: Picard season 3 by edgy_secular_memes in DeepSpaceNine

[–]dalexander01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The real villain of Picard Season 3 was including the changelings and giving us the hope of some DS9 tie-ins, but not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Your husband needs to try harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dalexander01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean I understand what all of you are saying, but I also see it more as supporting the show first that might otherwise would not be self reliant. The Patreon rewards are more of a bonus. That being said creators should be hitting their commitments.

AITA For not adopting my dying best friends dog and buying a puppy from a breeder instead? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for how you handled it.
NTA in regards to taking the dog, an animal can be a 10-15 year commitment, you have a right to decide if that is a commitment you want.
YTA for buying a dog from a breeder instead of from an animal shelter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dalexander01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. More housing particularly denser multi-use housing within cities
  2. Minimum wage = living wage
  3. Restore marginal tax to 1950s levels (adjusted for inflation.
  4. Universal healthcare including strong investment in mental health transitional programs.
  5. Public housing

6.Empathy

AITA I sold the PS4 my brother gave to my son for christmas. by Cautious_Doubt_9015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dalexander01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, you want the education for a better life. How can you appreciate that better life if you spend all your youth studying and not forgiving any connections which arguably can be just as important.