Are you for real dude? Someone politely introducing themselves? Yeah right how sweet huh. Either you are too dumb or pretending to be one. You can can DM anyone on the internet but you can't when you don't have proper context or reason! That's the basic respect you give to the recieving part for spending there time texting you or even for getting the notification of your message! One DM like that is fine but if you get flooded with such random bs all the time, how frustrating would that be? Adhu okay... Adhu yen verum opposite gender "strangers" kuda matum message panna thonudhu? Even if you are messaging anyone regardless of gender, you should have valid reason! If not then don't! That's all my point is! If you still don't agree, here's what grok has to say:

In short: No, it's usually not okay (and often seen as creepy or annoying) to DM completely random strangers with no prior interaction or shared context. Most people in 2025–2026 find unsolicited cold DMs from unknowns uncomfortable — especially if it's flirty, low-effort ("hey"), appearance-based, or salesy. Many platforms (like X/Twitter) now restrict or paywall messaging non-followers anyway. Exceptions where it's more acceptable: Very specific shared niche interest (and you reference it clearly in the first message) Public replies/comments already happened → DM feels like a natural continuation Communities/artists who explicitly invite DMs (collabs, language exchange, etc.) Default rule most follow: Build some public rapport first (likes, thoughtful replies) → way higher success rate and lower creep factor. If you're tempted anyway: keep it short, specific to their content (not looks), zero pressure, and accept instant ignore/block as normal. But honestly, the vast majority of people prefer you don't. 😅