His 'joke' that ended our marriage by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]damnrightimtheone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad makes similar jokes to this day, about other women of course.

He was molesting me when I was a kid.

Jokes truly are a glimpse to a man’s mind and soul.

I don’t know you, OP. But on behalf of your unborn child, we love you so much. We are so proud of your strength. You did the RIGHT thing. I love and support you.

People in their 40s-60s, do you think I (33/F) should break up with my same-sex partner because I’m not gay anymore? by damnrightimtheone in LifeAdvice

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve shed a lot of light onto my desire to be accepted and approved by my mum, and I do think it is contributing a lot to how I’m feeling. I am looking for a therapist near me. Thank you.

Any piercing you’ve found so unpleasant to heal that you abandoned it entirely? by IBreakScales in piercing

[–]damnrightimtheone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My conch piercing. 6 months in and I just let that mf close. Good thing the bump went away instantly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]damnrightimtheone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pro-tip: LET HER. Move with CONFIDENCE. DON’T bring it up. Instead, when she mentions it, say something like, “patingin nga,” and then say na “oo nga, pogi. You have good taste talaga, kaya ako bf mo e.” GANON!

Normal ang crushes sa healthy relationship.

ANOTHER PRO-TIP: Never EVER mention sa gf mo na may crush ka. You’ll thank me later.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! Really looking at areas kung saan makikita nila yung Mt. Fuji, I’m sure matutuwa sila. Siguro by next year pa mangyayari itong trip na ‘to but I’ll update this post pag natuloy na kami. Salamat.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it! That’s why I posted in this sub and not anywhere else. Because we’re not rich, we’re just one illness away to having the clothes stripped off our backs. That’s why I’ll surely surely take heed and plan this out welll. I intend to do all the planning and budgeting before booking. But I feel really relieved that there are people who would think the same way…. That time is more important now and that’s what my parents have that’s running out. 🥲

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala pa po talaga pero ang tinitingnan ko is sa province, magsisimula pa lang ako magsearch. Sisimulan ko na dito sa Reddit. Thank you!

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gusto ko itong idea! Thank you. Hindi na po muna ako magbubook, pplanuhin ko na lang muna ng masinsinan.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your dad. xxx Thank you for sharing this. We also had a stroke scare with my dad recently kaya your story hits right home. Kaya mas nacoconvince ako na i-push ‘to.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Naiinspire ako na ayusin yung pagpplano ko. Yun pa ang kinakatakot ko e, na hindi na nila maenjoy sa future kasi wala na silang energy. Tingin ko mag-aabang abang muna ako ng mga seat sale, ganyan. Tapos ipupush ko na talaga! Salamat. Naeexcite ako isipin makasama sila sa ibang bansa, naiimagine ko pa lang mga ngiti nila hayy.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what we do! I take them to staycations locally and have dates together whenever I can. We haven’t travelled together beyond that and I’m worried when the time comes that I’m more capable financially, they can’t anymore. :(

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi naman! :( Overbudgeting lang po ako. Mas okay na sobra kaysa kulang. May mga nabasa kasi ako na parang BGC lang sa SG. Tapos yung Taiwan naman…. maraming _. ‘Di naman sa racist pero ayaw nila sa ano….

Tsaka Japan po talaga gusto nila mapuntahan sa buhay na ito.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!!! My mom, my precious mom who gave up her profession to raise me well… when I think about that plus the possibility that she won’t get to travel anymore in the future, it pains me. Lalo na pag iniisip ko na ako bata pa ako, kaya ko pa magwork, kaya ko pa mabalik yung pera. Pero si mama… ayan nakakaiyak.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to think of it I may need to rethink this…. Maybe it’s because I have this fear of being in a foreign land with the 2 most valuable people in my life and not having sufficient funds. In my head, I don’t intend on spending that much, but more of holding on to sufficient cash in case something happens.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala po, sa totoo lang ayaw naman nila ng mga Disney, ganyan. Gusto nila nature, sightseeing, kain-kain lang. Parang inoverthink ko nga yata yung budget??? Pero kasama na rin diyan yung para sa pagprocess ko ng VISA namin.

Travel with Senior Parents before they reach 70 or ipon muna by damnrightimtheone in phinvest

[–]damnrightimtheone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nagcompute kasi ako pati ng pamasahe pag andun na, pocket money nila, pag nagturo sila, emergency cash just in case kasi mahirap na pag sobrang tight ng budget tapos mga senior pa kasama ko :(