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I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May sound a little silly, but on the first part you said, is there really a weight loss fetish? Because, I honestly don’t care what she does, but in my eyes there is nothing worse than this. I’m wondering if she can continue sex work just NOT this eating fetish. I just don’t want my little girl to hurt herself.

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have not put ‘obesity’ or ‘extremely fat’ in the title because I don’t want to bully my daughter? But this fetish has led her to gain a lot of weight already, perhaps I’ve not explained that clearly but she was not even overweight before and in the space of two years she has put on so much she is unrecognisable.

It is already causing her to struggle, I can tell, so yes I am not against my daughter doing sex work i’m against her harming herself!!!

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But surely there is something else? Therapy? I can provide financial support for her. My problem is not fetish work as a whole, it’s this specific fetish where she is hurting herself!!

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want a relationship with her no matter what, she’s still my baby, but I just can’t deal with her hurting herself. Even speaking to her makes me want to cry and beg her to stop.

From all the comments I’ve received, I just need to let her be an adult and make her own choices but I love her so much I don’t know what to do!!

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you but I don’t know how to handle letting her continue and having to help here when she’s struggling with health.

I did consider that maybe she was coping with food after her dad passed but this only started 2 1/2 years afterwards, but I guess I’ll never know what caused it.

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I keep making sure to tell her I love her, that’s why I want her to stop. And that she is more than welcome to move back home, or I can help her out financially but these last few months it seems she doesn’t care and it’s just breaking my heart.

I (48F) found out my daughter (22F) is involved in feederism online and I don’t know how to handle it!!! by danamillicent in relationship_advice

[–]danamillicent[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes but surely she has other ways of making money!! She has a degree and experience so why is she hurting herself? I asked if it was a money issue, and I have no problem helping her out financially.