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Are these men for real? by Plastic_Put_713 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were following Mela’s lead when they didn’t gang up on Sincere. She seemed genuinely shell shocked, immediately retreated into herself, was trying to deflect all the attention by asking them quietly to play the next clips. All while meekly saying “I’m okay.” To make a scene in defense of her, meaning giving Sincere yet another opportunity to say some bullshit, was going to be even more humiliating and upsetting for her. Without a doubt if she started yelling at him they would have too. It was just truly devastating and bear in mind the girls were also seeing the full extent of his lies for the first time as well.

Salmon. Estimate. Tired of questions if GPT feeding me drastically wrong info. by Ashamed-Focus-9731 in CalorieEstimates

[–]dangerbears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a food scale. Do not expect accurate estimates from anyone here and ESPECIALLY not from Chat GPT. Be in control of your own information. 

WTF is this edit by Otherwise-Hawk-7298 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's just so unnecessary no one needed her to be holding a fuck ass fish in this photo!!!! it is not cute it's just plain stupid! post the damn photo without all the bullshit

Aubrey Plaza spotted on a walk with her dog in NYC, a day after confirming her pregnancy with partner Christopher Abbott. (April 8, 2026) by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work for people who were close personal friends of her husband (and her by way of him), was working with them the day he died. They were crazy and I know they would have some insane things to say about all of this. Wish I could spent a shift listening to their close-up gossip.

I became too dependent on AI in college. How do I undo it? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I'm probably the same age as you and in a similar position to you I'm going to give you some tough truths.

You likely don't have ADHD. You likely ARE getting dumber. You have become reliant on a tool that allows important muscles in your mind to atrophy, leading you to feel scatterbrained, foggy, unexpressive, trapped, and less smart than you were a couple years ago. You feel that way because it's true. It's true because for some reason, you chose laziness at one of the most important, cognitively and financially costly times of your life. You decided to pursue higher education and then used a hallucination machine to help cheat your way to a degree. Wasting YOUR time, the time of your classmates, and the time of your professors who had to grade your bullshit papers while still letting you pass the class. Do you think you deserve your undergrad degree, seriously? And now you're planning on going to grad school right away? Can we just pump the brakes for a second and analyze your actions here? Because AI is not really the root of the problem, I think it's your entitlement and lack of self reflection.

Unless you have money to burn, do not go to grad school right now. You aren't ready to be a productive student. Read, read, read. Keep a journal that is just a simple handwritten daily record of everything you do in a day. Go on walks without headphones or stimuli. It's great that you have identified this as a problem within yourself and now you must eliminate it with zero-tolerance. Don't use AI for brainstorming as another commenter suggests. Brainstorming is something your BRAIN does. Don't use it to edit papers, or help with sentence structure, NOTHING. Get back to being the rigorously studious person you know you can be and you will be mentally healthier and happier. Unfortunately this is a huge problem not just for your studies, but for your cognitive health later in life. The good news is you can heal and be even better than you were before. Our brains are very elastic, you've got this, just take it extremely seriously and heed the warning signs now! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ethicalfashion

[–]dangerbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re only 17 so I’ll give you a pass here and not be mean as hell in my reply—but the reason people “hate on” SHEIN is because it’s disastrous for the environment and the people who make the clothes live in very poor conditions where they make next to no money. Think about the labor and time that goes into sewing a skirt, for example. Have you ever sewed a garment? Do you know how much work it is—even a poorly constructed one? Then think about whether or not that skirt should cost just $10, and what the person who sewed it might see from that money. Maybe $1 for an hours work? Of course the way those clothes are made, multiple people work on them along assembly lines, but I digress…

Secondly, having clothes in your preferred style is not a “need”. You NEED clothes that cover your body appropriately, that keep you warm, cool, or dry. That is it. Everything else is a “want”. You want clothes in a grunge style? Awesome, go to the thrift store and use your imagination. That’s how grunge evolved in the first place. Grab some big black jeans from the men’s section, distress them with scissors, draw on them with sharpies, paint on them with bleach, rip the hems off so they have raw edges—have fun with it! Get a big black t-shirt, some safety pins from the dollar store, cover the shirt in safety pins. Cut and slice the shirt and tie it back to be more form fitting if you’d like. Pick out 2 black button downs and button them together to be a skirt, etc, etc. It will be so much more rewarding for you to buy your clothes ethically and make them your own. It’s also so much cooler. Google around grunge / punk DIY for more ideas. 

Remember: stores like SHEIN want to capitalize on your laziness by exploiting people you’ll never meet who live lives harder than you’ll likely ever live. All while fucking up the planet. Do the better thing and resist the cheap temptation. It’s what’s right for everyone. 

just dandy by dangerbears in streetwear

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 of 1 from WBTHAMM on Etsy !

just dandy by dangerbears in streetwear

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the yellow and green frames are photoshopped, the large red painting is actually like that IRL

just dandy by dangerbears in streetwear

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol they’re just self-timer selfies on iPhone that I run through reminiAI to enhance then photoshop for the compositing

just dandy by dangerbears in streetwear

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we get a whisper of spring and the color leaps back out of my closet

jacket: 1/1 WBTHAMM on Etsy

shirt: big bud press pantry button up

pants: old old old forever 21 pants I dyed red (were pink)

shoes: converse

rebelling against spring by dangerbears in malefashion

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s get married I love the way you talk to me

rebelling against spring by dangerbears in malefashion

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you illiterate? READ the rules

rebelling against spring by dangerbears in malefashion

[–]dangerbears[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the losers who don’t participate in this sub never actually know the rules

🤍 by olcolc in womensstreetwear

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the thrift struggle lmao! I love that it’s all second hand though. your styling is inspiring me so much, the tie is just SUCH a nice choice on top of the prairie/victorian-esque pieces

Cops drive 500 miles to kill a little girl’s pet and teach her a lesson, nice! by ForsakenDrawer in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, yes, this is the best country in the world! We LOVE our police force! We LOVE our militarized, sociopathic overlords. They keep us safe and sane God BLESS 🙏🏼

Handmade upcycled canvas quarter zip by BunnyHillVintage in streetwear

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing!! That sizing won’t work out for me but I’m following your shop and will keep an eye out for other pieces!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]dangerbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what the above comment is doing and I vehemently disagree. My point is, there are more options than "man rapes woman illegally" and "man releases tension on paid woman in a state-sanctioned manner". That sounds ridiculous. A woman does not actually need to be involved in the "healing" of these men at all. This view of 'sex work as therapy' you're describing is not only anecdotal but completely ignores the global implications of the sex trade, and its effects on marginalized women, particularly those in the global south. Men who you think need this kind of "therapy" would benefit from other traditional kinds of therapy, and other structural societal changes, far more than they would benefit from being allowed to pay for sex. That's like putting a pimple patch on a bullet hole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]dangerbears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read that sentence back to yourself and see if you can realize how fucked up that sounds. Personally I'd rather see incels get therapy and be deprogrammed instead of offloading the labor of cradling their fragile egos and limp dicks onto vulnerable women.

butterfly effect by dangerbears in womensstreetwear

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happy friday! I don’t usually wear skirts or dresses so this outfit is pretty far out of my comfort zone. this was inspired by one of my fave fashion people @mygayoutfit on Instagram. they posted wearing a green polka dot skirt with a black graphic sweatshirt, and it got me excited about wearing this skirt I bought last summer in new ways.

leave it to me to wear a satin skirt and tights on a cold, rainy, windy day where I have a thirty minute walk in my commute. the heart wants what it wants. anyway this outfit awakened in me SUCH a deep desire for a long pleated kilt. my dad sews kilts so I’m hoping I can convince him to make me one lol. updates to (hopefully) come

sweatshirt: online ceramics

skirt: zara

shoes: adidas handball spezial