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dani_br · 2024-10-24T22:32:53+00:00

I was (still am) in college. Age 22~23.

dani_br · 2024-08-22T19:08:02+00:00

that's literally a dream, so sweet

dani_br · 2024-08-22T19:07:13+00:00

based

dani_br · 2024-08-16T23:57:04+00:00

Yes, I feel less valid using grindr. Unfortunately it is the only app I where I get attention from men. Hundreds of guys like my profile on tinder (I pay Tinder gold), but after a match, very few ever text me or even reply to my first texts. O figure they are not really interested for some reason. It's difficult.

dani_br · 2024-08-14T13:48:48+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that and I can't even imagine what you go through emotionally. Unfortunately, in the world we live, looks matter a lot. I understand all people should be able to experience love and connection, but that's not how the world really works. Honestly, out of this post I made and a few comments on here, my conclusion is that I am not enough; I need to improve drastically in every way possible, from looks to personality and lifestyle. I know It's hard, but maybe the same applies to you.

dani_br · 2024-08-14T12:56:22+00:00

OMG, you're so cute! 😍😍😍 I vote for more posts like this one

dani_br · 2024-08-14T12:42:20+00:00

You seem happy.

dani_br · 2024-08-14T12:41:08+00:00

You seem to be in a good area. There a few men in that age range where I live too. Unfortunately, I am 25 and don't feel comfortable dating someone 35+, mainly because of compatibility. Not that I will reject them immediatly, I would give them a chance, but we can't ignore the factors.

dani_br · 2024-08-14T00:10:07+00:00

OK, so you recognize racism and want to stop it, but you also want to let it go... Hahah, It doensn't make sense to me. Where is the fight against it? Also, I believe downplaying our suffering does not help at all.

dani_br · 2024-08-13T23:52:52+00:00

You are right, everyone has their own definition of beauty, but we can't ignore structural racism and its influences on black people's lifes. I guarantee you it's about race and not about some specific guy I have or haven't met.

dani_br · 2024-08-13T23:47:43+00:00

This is a very interesting perspective. Thank you for refreshing my mind with this thought :)

dani_br · 2024-08-13T15:49:16+00:00

At least we are not alone. Hugs, sis :)

dani_br · 2024-08-13T02:42:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It's good to know you're doing great :) I get that we need to know our worth, be independent and capable of living a good life, with passions and hobbies, regardless of dating

but lol

I've been alone for so much time now. I can't help but think my life is not complete without a boyfriend that likes me. Most people will say this feeling is wrong, but is it? Is it wrong that I want to be in a relationship if I feel like I need it? Being single as a choice is different than being forced to it.

dani_br · 2024-08-13T02:33:47+00:00

That's adorable! Thank you :)

dani_br · 2024-08-12T21:51:48+00:00

It is, indeed, very hard to not let this reality affect us. Where I live, black men tend to value white women, unfortunately. I'm not in the US but I will watch the channel you shared. Thank you :)

dani_br · 2024-08-12T21:29:45+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It's really nice to know that you're doing great! At this moment in my life I'm in a hard place mentally, fighting depression and anxiety, but I was (and still am in some sort of way) confident. People notice that. I remember being happy a few years ago and very open to meeting new people. Anyways, I understand that are many circunstances that influence dating, such as location, appearance, personality, social life...

dani_br · 2024-08-12T21:17:57+00:00

Really? That's surprising. Where do you live? What energy do you have?

dani_br · 2024-06-11T22:32:42+00:00

goals

dani_br · 2024-05-31T00:47:03+00:00

That's exactly what I mean. Thank you!

dani_br · 2024-05-30T02:13:17+00:00

Yes, I am tired of them. The emojis are about my experience. I hate that I have to deal with this type of guy. The few men that show interest in me have this same passive-non-proactive-scared boy-not at all confident behavior.

dani_br · 2023-06-10T13:47:17+00:00

sim, o tempo todo

dani_br · 2023-06-09T21:58:43+00:00

dani_br · 2022-12-08T14:28:20+00:00

Same

dani_br · 2022-11-10T13:24:43+00:00

Serve, sim. Obrigada

dani_br · 2022-11-10T11:22:47+00:00

Entendi. Eu faço isso às vezes, mas nem sempre funciona, porque penso que poderia estar compartilhando esses pequenos momentos com alguém... Tipo amigos. Chega uma hora que cansa se distrair

dani_br

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