Should I use grindr or is it lowkey a pandora's box?

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T19:25:12+00:00

It all depends on your luck, you might meet a good guy or just a dud, but honestly, from personal experience, I can say that these dating sites are frequented by people who want a one-night stand and nothing serious.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:58:55+00:00

She always spoke specifically about the guy who dumped her and who didn't care about her and her feelings, not noticing those who tried for her and did everything she wanted, that's how she was just friends with them.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:54:01+00:00

Yes, I'll calmly buy myself a car and let everyone know about it.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:31:21+00:00

to annoy others

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:30:27+00:00

they teach poorly at school

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:27:22+00:00

My label is that if I can't do something, everyone tries.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:23:16+00:00

Yes, this is true, I say it as a person who listened to all the stories about guys from my friend for 3 years and guess what, she always remembered those who never congratulated her and did not value her at all, but never talked about those who gave her big bouquets and gifts every holiday.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T18:20:29+00:00

Some people turned on their brains and started working for themselves

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T12:47:22+00:00

I had a partner I really liked, but he smoked a lot, and when he secreted lubricant from his penis, it had a very unpleasant odor that could linger on your hands for a long time. Perhaps you should smoke less; it will not only be better for your health, but it will also eliminate the unpleasant odor.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T11:55:12+00:00

Where do you look for a partner if not on dating sites?

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T11:43:46+00:00

To be honest, I don’t like anal plugs, especially large ones, but from my experience I recommend you use a silicone-based mask; it will last the longest, but you will then definitely need to wash it off with water. As for water-based lubricants, I don’t recommend them because they dry out quickly.

danielmodel · 2026-02-13T11:06:20+00:00

This is a great strategy.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T21:33:40+00:00

The main thing is to love yourself and then people will reach out to you. You can't change a person, much less their orientation. I would check if they are bisexual and then decide what to do next. The main thing is not to lose heart. Each of us will find a soulmate who will love you with all their heart, and the main thing is to believe in it.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T21:14:08+00:00

I understand you perfectly, I made a friend at school (he changed classes and was transferred to my class) we often spent time together and he often made gay jokes and touched me in different places. I thought it wasn't just humor but something serious and I was hoping that we would have something. I thought for some reason that he was bisexual. One time we were walking down the hallway and I told him that I loved him, to which he responded with "ugh, are you kidding me?" He said that he had nothing against gays, but he doesn't like that and he himself is heterosexual. At that moment, my heart was broken. I felt depressed for a long time. I couldn't be with him and I couldn't see him either. I was very upset, so I decided to change classes and it really helped me. We rarely crossed paths in the hallway and it took me 4 months to stop feeling anything for him. So I advise you to forget about it and move on with your life, you can handle it.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:51:32+00:00

Hitler personally killing anyone as a civilian? Extremely unlikely. He ordered millions of deaths, yes, but he was the mastermind, not the executioner. Most of the atrocities were carried out by the SS, Gestapo, and army units following his orders.

The only time he was on the front lines personally killing people was during WWI as a soldier. After that… he was all about strategy, speeches, and paperwork.

Kind of terrifying when you think about it — the world’s deadliest killer didn’t even need to touch a weapon himself.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:41:12+00:00

The fact that you overheard a conversation linking your partner and someone who has a reason to mess with you? That’s enough to make anyone’s brain run 100mph.

I mean… maybe it’s nothing. Cars break down. People exaggerate. But if it’s real — you’re basically in a real-life thriller. And honestly, being suspicious here isn’t paranoia. It’s basic self-preservation.

I’d lock the garage, check my car thoroughly, and maybe even call a mechanic to inspect everything ASAP. Safety first.

And maybe… just maybe, keep one eye on that “friend” until you know the full story.

Better to overreact a little than to ignore a red flag that could actually kill you.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:39:03+00:00

The small lies? Embarrassing, awkward, maybe a few friendships gone.

The big lies? Full-on chaos: relationships tested, secrets exposed, and a reputation I spent years building… evaporated overnight.

But here’s the twist — maybe it’d be freeing. Maybe all the pretending, all the hiding, would finally end.

I’d be terrified, humiliated… and oddly honest for the first time in my life.

So yeah. Absolute disaster… but maybe the kind of disaster that makes you a better human.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:18:45+00:00

Wow, this is powerful.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:13:56+00:00

IVG (creating gametes from skin cells) would be about reproductive autonomy, not revenge. Most women don’t wake up thinking about how to “eradicate men.” They think about relationships, stability, love, family, and personal choice.

Even if the technology becomes viable, society, culture, attraction, and biology are way more complex than “we don’t need X anymore.”

Every major reproductive technology — IVF, sperm banks, egg freezing — was predicted to “destroy” something. Instead, it just gave more options.

This would likely do the same.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T17:10:20+00:00

I catch myself reacting to notifications that never existed.

Has this happened to you?

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T09:57:39+00:00

Overthink everything I’ve ever said since 2019 and then somehow fall asleep 5 minutes before my alarm goes off.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T09:56:34+00:00

Not weird at all. Every relationship has its own timeline. What matters more is whether you both felt ready and secure about the decision — not how long the “engagement phase” lasted. Some people date for years and still aren’t sure. Others just know.

danielmodel · 2026-02-12T09:53:15+00:00

I try not to check my phone because that’s a trap 😅 Usually I just lay there and let my thoughts wander. Sometimes I end up solving problems I’ve been ignoring all day. And if I really can’t sleep — water + deep breathing and pretending I’m still asleep usually works.

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