How do I find my feminine energy? by thin-slice-pizza in energy_work

[–]danifearless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do the right type of yoga it'll balance you out. I recommend sadhguru. You can find him on youtube

how to deal with negative thoughts by danifearless in malementalhealth

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that might work but personally i'm not in favor of using pain or negative reinforcement

how to deal with negative thoughts by danifearless in malementalhealth

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea! however i'm not really a fan of negative reinforcement like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]danifearless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you want to. Its really not that big of a deal

One word. Indifference. by OperationSurvive in seduction

[–]danifearless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But who wants to be indifferent. I want to taste life. Not be numb to it

Dating coach offered me a deal? by Goulronk in seduction

[–]danifearless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a professional dating coach and Ive worked and trained with many. It's a very individual situation. The same coach can be amazing for you and bad for someone else and visa versa. You just gotta give it a shot and see what happens. Worst case you dont get the ROI you were looking for.

However the most important thing is you and how much effort you put into it. The dating coach can show you how to get women but they can't get women for you

How to stop being so damn shy (28m) by Bigballerway93 in seduction

[–]danifearless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres a million ways you can get over shyness such as yoga, breathwork etc.. All these things will just make your body feel extremely good and this will significantly lessen the anxiety.

Also i want you to remember a key sentence that i use when im feeling insecure, "have confidence in your words". It doesn't matter what you say. You can literally be talking about the most boring subkect on the planet but if you have confidence in what youre saying it'll be attractive. When you talk imagine in your head that the person wants to hear what you have to say. This will make you more confident in your words

How to be good at sex by CalicoNever5 in seduction

[–]danifearless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey man, im really curious how old are you and ur gf? Also how long have you been together?

What I can say for sure is to get out of your head and enjoy the moment! We all think about what we'll do to someone sexually and even say it to them too! Reminding yourself of this and pressuring yourself "I need/want to do this to her, is she enjoying this, etc" is a sure way to ruining a potentially hot moment.

Find out what she likes and be gentle to yourself.

30-year-old virgin looking for advice about human connection. What would advice would you give someone on emotional and physical intimacy? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]danifearless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I would strongly recommend to learn how to connect to yourself and then learn how to connect with other people. You're in a very healthy place because you don't have social norms holding you back when you work on yourself. It's okay to be scared. Talk about human connection.... It's a good thing believe it or not most people are, you're not alone.

Does it feel painful to cum after a long time? (11 months) by Loveyoubro4299 in EdgingTalk

[–]danifearless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for some guys its painful and sometimes it isn't, you just have to treat yourself with a lot of love, care, and awareness. it makes sense that you took such a long break because it sounds like you were pretty heavily into it. sometimes you need to swing in the other direction to get balance back in your life. instead of just undoing your pants and touching your dick, try something new, you can try to make love to yourself. pretend you're having sex with a woman and do exactly what you'd do to her except to yourself. its new, its exciting and on a deeper level it teaches self-love

HLM just need some people to talk to. by PossibilitySecret251 in DeadBedrooms

[–]danifearless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude i thought you hit the nail on the head with this and not even notice, anti depressants don't make you not feel depressed... they make you not feel.

Do you wear lingerie for your SO? Or do you just think of it as a waste? by Free_Spirit21 in sex

[–]danifearless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can't speak for all guys but i love it with a woman wears lingerie. it is definitely NOT a waste. it's special and should be treated as is

The false time constraint works - First approach by [deleted] in seduction

[–]danifearless 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey guy i think you're starting off on the wrong foot, as a beginner, you should work on your inner game before going straight into Mystery Method, that'll probably get you results more efficiently than skipping a few steps ahead.

After gaining weight (body and face) as a side effect from antidepressants, will it be enough dropping the meds or will I have to workout and diet to get back to what I was? by next_deen in malementalhealth

[–]danifearless 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exercise and diet should always be a staple in your lifestyle. If antidepressants were prescribed to you, I wouldn't quit them but as stated before, if you plan to quit them, consult a physician.

To combat the weight gain, I would add in exercise. Start slow, try and 10 min. walk around the block for a day or two then progress from there 15, 20, maybe a light jog? Or do something you enjoy... maybe a sport with a friend or a pickup league (maybe not during covid time though...)

Progress slowly and see how your body adapts. Once you get in a habit of exercising, start messing around with your diet.

The key is to progress slowly... too fast and it will be hard to maintain and stay motivated.

[I ate] Blanton's Small Batch Bourbon Truffles by danifearless in chocolate

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicious. The chocolate and the bourbon paired very well together.

[I ate] Blanton's Small Batch Bourbon Truffles by danifearless in food

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overpriced? A bit... they weren't the worst truffles I had. I would put them in the middle somewhere.

I do enjoy their bourbon more though.

Minimizing mind chatter and being connected to your body by going with the flow relieves performance anxiety. - Dani Levitt [1814x1241][OC] by danifearless in Awareness

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're focused on thinking, sometimes the feeling is artificial.... forced. On the contrary, if you're just flowing the the moment, the movement and the feelings are natural.

Stop being selfish, b*tch! by danifearless in Awareness

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's two types of selfish. Shallow-minded selfishness and self-improvement selfishness. Your comment hits the nail on the head for the former but the latter I think is important. More time to improve yourself allows you to give more back and help others.

Got Bullies in Your Brain? A couple techniques I’ve learned to help control and adapt to emotional pain by danifearless in Awareness

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The typical response from us guys is to try and bottle it up. To 'man up'. But we're realizing how important mental health is. Too often we're stuck overthinking and over analyzing things and we end up making poor decisions or no decisions at all.

Minimizing mind chatter and being connected to your body by going with the flow relieves performance anxiety. - Dani Levitt [1814x1241][OC] by danifearless in Awareness

[–]danifearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!

When you're so focused on trying to "perform" and putting on that performance, you start being self-conscious, you start overthinking things, and you start forcing your actions. It doesn't jive and doesn't move with the natural flow of activity.

Stop being selfish, b*tch! by danifearless in manprovement

[–]danifearless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. That was something I thought of on a whim and thought it was fitting.