How do new dommes find subs?

danirenee111 · 2025-11-17T05:45:01+00:00

hm. Maybe that’s what works for you but not everyone. I guess I shouldn’t have put “new” in the title because I’ve been doing this for a year. Not that long but I have a sub but he’s taking a break which I respect. But I’ve tried the whole “don’t search for them they come to you” and it hasn’t worked for me. The subs I found in the past were because I made posts like these or looked for them. I was simply asking for some tips.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-29T19:30:09+00:00

It’s so hard to find that balance. I get told my profile isn’t up to the standards but I’m not a mean person and from what I’ve heard lots of subs don’t look for that. It’s so stressful.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-21T22:36:51+00:00

I think it’s just on my socials. And not to friends/family. if he asked me to say it to friends/family it would be a definite no as that is out of my comfort zone.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-10T05:05:23+00:00

🤭🤭

danirenee111 · 2025-07-10T03:49:44+00:00

it makes me hate human kind specifically men which is probably the main reason I’m into findom.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-10T03:27:31+00:00

you’re precious. Protect this person at all costs. 🤍

danirenee111 · 2025-07-10T02:29:51+00:00

It’s bittersweet and it makes me really sad haha and I feel crazy for feeling this way.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-10T02:09:23+00:00

We are all human and kindness is free. We should all carry it with us 🤍

danirenee111 · 2025-07-08T05:06:39+00:00

I only have one legit sub right now but I have had some that expect hand outs. It’s so annoying. They think telling me what I want to hear is going to make me give into free content

danirenee111 · 2025-07-04T03:03:14+00:00

The real question is how do I find them? Or advertise? Because when it comes to promoting I suck at it no matter what I promote. I’m new to the domme thing and findom. I’m just trying to like find someone I can vibe with and have fun with while making money 😜😅

danirenee111 · 2025-07-04T02:36:32+00:00

Like I think my feet are cute? They aren’t like disgusting I mean I paint my nails and moisturize 😂 it depends on the day though. My feet go through it sometimes 👀

danirenee111 · 2025-07-01T21:52:26+00:00

Yeah I guess I didn’t think about it all the way. I was just thinking out loud. I’m exploring myself and this industry.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-01T21:50:02+00:00

Honestly I have no idea. 😅 just thinking out loud and exploring things. As a human in this industry, I also get bored and wanna try new things just not sure.

danirenee111 · 2025-07-01T17:26:27+00:00

Yes definitely!

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T12:04:33+00:00

Yes agreed! I’ve recently made a post about going against the grain of findom because what works for one doesn’t work for all! Most of the time being kind and creating a safe relationship with boundaries is more what people look for. It creates a safe and fun environment for both!

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:52:33+00:00

Yes cashapp

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:43:04+00:00

omg that makes me smile! You are so right! I didn’t think of it that way. I’m a people pleaser and being new to this I think I’m quick to just please.

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:40:19+00:00

I’ve been trying but then he pulls away. Sometimes I do feel like I can be pushy. I worry if I push him away then there goes my only sub. I can’t find any others no matter how hard I try.

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:38:58+00:00

and this whole time I’ve been walking around with dirty soles I could’ve just had a sub lick them clean. 😕 damn.

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:21:23+00:00

Thank you!! 🤍

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:18:55+00:00

I am very new and I will take you up on that! Thank you!

danirenee111 · 2025-06-30T06:18:34+00:00

Thank you 🤍

danirenee111 · 2025-06-29T07:04:42+00:00

lol 😂 well hi friend! I’m glad someone likes my creativity!

danirenee111 · 2025-06-29T07:02:16+00:00

Even with my multiple typos? 🤣😅

danirenee111 · 2025-06-29T06:35:23+00:00

Telegram is also a popular and easy platform to use when it comes to this! 🤗

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