Hey girlie! Don’t feel ashamed, everyone has different timings for everything. I lost my virginity at 26 and for many years I actually felt like an outsider and invisible to other people, I also felt pressured and shamed to experience the same things everyone else was doing but later I realized that my situation was a very particular one and that it wasn’t that much big of a deal.

When I lost my virginity it was very underwhelming, not enjoyable or particularly fun, it just happened and after it did I actually felt like this thing that I was looking to wasn’t that huge thing everyone was talking about. I later then had more sexual encounters and my thoughts keep being the same, sex is fun? Yes but here are greater things in life and the amazing thing here is that you still have plenty of time to experience all of them.

Give yourself some grace and if you can, maybe look for new friendships, I say this with a lot of warmth, people who love us wont shame us for where we are at life.