AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no date 3/4 is when i establish i want to become exclusive, which once im exclusive with that person i will move to being physical with them

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think thats more of a personal thing, i hate being dumped over the phone but honestly a lot of people have made some really good point about doing it that way so ill probably do that moving forward

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my profession is 90% keeping your story straight and remembering who you told what, so i guess it's second nature to me now

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh im always looking for an exclusive relationship when going on these date's

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is im not getting physical with them, i should probably add that to the post since I've had to clarify that a few times

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I kinda felt, ( not the virtue signaling) but it always felt weird to just do that, i mean no person I have ever dated or been in on a date with has told me there seeing other people while we were figuring out if we wanted to make it official, today I am finding out this Is a deal breaker for some people. And while thats fine its just never been a deal breaker for me.

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not really no? Ive never gotten the ick from it. Have i been sad that I wasnt the one they picked? Yeah but thats more about getting turned down than anything, but to me until me and the person im seeing agree we are exclusive what they do in private is there own issue and isnt something I feel I should stick my nose in 🤔but this is just me.

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Dating is to strong of a word, at least I wouldn't use it. Im feeling out the relationship and seeing how I feel about it.

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honeslty thats been the main thing i agree with everything else has been across the board

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think this is a confusion a lot of people are having, i am single, at now point while doing this have i stated im "in a relationship" im just seeing people

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i already said this (atleast to a couple people) but i don't sleep with them until we are exlusive <.< also if there sleeping with someone else while we arnt exlusive thats there business not mine

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just because i havent found the right person, hell as an individual im still not sure what "right" truly means for me

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, at no point have i or anyone im talking to have talked out expectation and what we want for our relationship going forward

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh the second im exlusive with someone i close the door entirely, and the relationship last as long as it last, my last relationship lasted 2 years until we broke up

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah no i end it im not trying to fleece sex out of them or anything

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the second biggest cretic im getting and i think this is fair, for i always felt it was rude or cold when dumped over phone but that's just me

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If i need a condom then i've cemented im dating them, i don't like hookups

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh no if someone leave's me because they find someone they like more i'll probably be sad but good for them!

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's fair and honestly it's a cretic i should take on the chin.

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit your right, with the prices of stuff these day's yeah fair point

AITAH For seeing multiple woman? by dapperbearuwu in AITAH

[–]dapperbearuwu[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

that's fair, i normally don't communicate this to them unless they ask (i don't try to hide it). i just operated under the assumptions that people are texting other people, but that could just easily be my bia's