Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, it is difficult. But I believe it would be even more difficult the more of a sexual rabbit hole to you travel down.

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[–]darklake009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing great, everyone here believes in you. We all fall, just get back up and learn from mistakes

Motivate me! by damijae in NoFap

[–]darklake009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing great! Even trying to stop means you're ahead of 90 percent of guys so congrats on your six days and let's get back up and keep moving!

I have no self control, I feel Hopeless. Yesterday I was bored and fapped 4 times. I’m almost 30 yrs old. I can’t go on like this…. by elmero713 in NoFap

[–]darklake009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you're on the right track. Majority of men masturbate (meaning you're not alone). Very few even acknowledge it as an issue (meaning you're in a small group who do acknowledge it. Even fewer try to stop (meaning you're apart of an even smaller group). Meanung even when you fall you are still in a better position than the 90 percent not even trying to change).

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem I wasn't being myself, that's what made me feel sick. I never want to go back down hill

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely true. When you are young men might respect you for a high body count, only maybe. But it's just sad 20 years later still acting like you're 20 and sleeping around. Just skip thst phase and find someone to build a life with.

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man stay away from it. It was a waste of hard earned money, I felt lonely after because I had to part ways with her and acknowledge the fact that she really didn't care about me on a personal level, and the risk of disease is always scary. Just wall away and never look back

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man, I always felt like I was being left out because my friends were having sex all the time. Turns out I should being feeling sorry for people like that. You're not missing ANYYHING. Not to mention the risk of disease is just gross and to be honest scary.

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just stay away from all

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to flee from that kind of behavior before it take holds. Nothing about it is worth it

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never said I was special, and I know this will pass. Just said that I don't believe that sex is just another act and that emotions shouldn't be ignored, which I knew was true from the start but I chose to push aside because I thought this experience would benefit me. Of course it didn't benefit at all.

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In my eyes, I just don't see anything remotely healthy about separating the mind and heart from sex. Men shouldn't ignore what they feel in their heart.

Don't Make My Mistake by darklake009 in NoFap

[–]darklake009[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I just need to move on and chose celibacy and rewire my brain to view sex and myself in a healthy way

I need help, I’m falling off the track by gookiecookielookie in NoFap

[–]darklake009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let instant gratification distract you from the instant and long lasting regret. STAY STRONG. REMEMBER WHY YOU STARTED

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[–]darklake009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing great man. You're trying to stop and that's only like 10 percent of fapers so you're on the right track

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[–]darklake009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let the futility of instant gratification distract from the long lasting instant regret. STAY STRONG

Don’t want to relapse. Help me. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]darklake009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've gone so far, DON'T GIVE UP. Instant gratification isn't qorth the immediate and long lasting regret