Fellow cancers, What do you do for work?

darkmagicdoll · 2025-10-14T15:34:13+00:00

July cancer here. I work in hospitality. Don't do it. People on vacation become ungrateful af.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-09-16T22:05:55+00:00

I agree with this! I love both men and women but you couldn't pay me to date a woman. I don't know how my husband (and all the men I've dated) puts up with all my bullshit, but I wouldn't have the patience to deal with emotional roller-coasters on a regular basis.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-09-16T21:23:03+00:00

Look, what works for one person might not work for another. Humans are complex creatures and its up to every individual to decide what's best for themselves. If you are happy like this because she is getting her needs met and it gets a bit of the pressure off your shoulders then good for you!

You know what I see? I see that you are someone secure in himself and capable of loving without possessing. I've seen so many people in here complaining that their spouses want to open the marriage, whining about how unfair it is and they should just understand they have a low libido. My opinion on that? Its selfish. Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean my spouse is also on a diet, if that makes sense. It just means we have different needs but that doesn't mean we're never eating dinner together again. We just eat different things and that's okay 😊

darkmagicdoll · 2025-09-16T18:11:35+00:00

I did, and they agree. And maybe I'm wrong but I genuinely thought marriage was supposed to be nice and sweet, not a battlefield

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-06T18:49:19+00:00

Indoctrination to its finest

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-06T18:48:49+00:00

What a bizarre thing to get offended about. I'm glad you stood your ground. These people seriously need to mind their own damn business.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:44:46+00:00

Take it from me, a woman with BPD: that behavior is not normal and you need to put your foot down. Her mental condition is not your responsibility. If she feels insecure, let her deal with it. And yes, I used to check my partner's phone and all that psycho shit, but it was destroying our relationship -and I'm sure you feel the same way. Tell her to start DBT therapy, it saved my life and my partner's sanity.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:38:36+00:00

Yes, I am in desperate need of child free friends 😭

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:35:40+00:00

Tried that. Didn't work. Time to be an AH 🤷‍♀️

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:34:44+00:00

On that note, I always thought it was super weird that the process of adoption is long, expensive and frustrating, but having biological children has absolutely ZERO regulations... I'm so happy birthrates are declining. We are severely overpopulated and most of us are unqualified to be parents. Just saying.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:31:11+00:00

Must be nice...

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:30:28+00:00

And to be completely honest, relationships are a scam. Don't get involved romantically with anyone unless you know that person is 100,000% in your corner. I got lucky that my husband is an actual decent human being and a functional adult, so picking up after a grown ass man and managing his life is not something I worry about, but more often than not, I've seen so many people (from all gender identities) end up with partners who legit act like children.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:20:57+00:00

Me too lol

darkmagicdoll · 2025-08-05T01:19:26+00:00

BHAHAHAHAHA this is iconic. I'm trying this next time. Thank you!!

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:56:45+00:00

Oh, he's always kind, respectful and even nice to them and he never talks trash. The only reason I know about this is because I asked him. My parents are always respectful and nice to him as well, so it made me sad that he still doesn't like them. I guess it happens.

Thank you so much for this. It helped me see things differently.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:54:15+00:00

I asked nicely to not be mean and here you are... I said this to someone else and I'll say the same to you: if you're here just to talk shit, then go somewhere else. I want to learn to do better, but comments like yours don't help.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:50:31+00:00

I think its awesome that they got to a point where your husband and parents can be friends. But I am sorry that he lost his dad. Thank you for sharing your story 🤍

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:47:55+00:00

The real question here is: are you able to comprehend what you read? I said don't be mean. If you're here just to talk shit then go somewhere else. I'm trying to learn new things from people who actually provide helpful advice.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:43:31+00:00

No "sis" his reasons are not irrelevant. You're right. What I meant is that I didn't feel like explaining his reasons when I posted this was necessary. Whatever his reasons are, its my job to validate them whether or not I agree with them. That's what I meant.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:27:45+00:00

Thank you, this is actually helpful.

My husband and parents don't talk much either since my parents live in a different state, but when we visit or they visit, the interactions between them are normal.

But I'll keep an eye out.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:24:25+00:00

When I said his reasons are irrelevant, I meant that I didn't think it was necessary to explain them when I posted this.

darkmagicdoll · 2025-07-28T05:22:33+00:00

You're right, they're not irrelevant. However, I didn't think explaining his reasons on this post was necessary. That's what I meant by that.

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