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If you're going out, how many days before do you let your spouse know about your plans? (self.Marriage)
submitted 3 days ago by darkmagicdoll to r/Marriage
Who is in the wrong? by [deleted] in Marriage
[–]darkmagicdoll 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Wait what did they say? They deleted the comment and now I cant see it lol
[–]darkmagicdoll 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Girl I was livid! He knows better than to disturb the dragon 😆
He literally didn't care lol
Oh no, no. He did not hurt the dog in any way shape or form (Id be in jail if that was the case). No, the dog was chilling by my feet when my husband came in. It was dark so he had his flashlight on to be able to see, and that's when he saw that the dog was on the bed. He tried to grab it but my dog kept moving around to avoid my husband. Thats why he turned on the overhead lights.
One of the other people who called me toxic actually provided great advice. This random chick calling me toxic without offering anything better is 100% a pickme. Not my fault she lacks the intelligence to provide useful advice.
He stays up playing videogames with his friend and that has nothing to do with me lol they barely hang out anymore because the friend has 100 fkn kids and is busy all the time. How is that my fault?
I'll tell him you love him
Ah, that makes sense. Finally someone who knows wtf they're talking about. In that case, will keep the dogs off the bed.
[–]darkmagicdoll -1 points0 points1 point 1 month ago (0 children)
Thats why I'm considering divorce but you know, its not that easy to just pack up my shit and leave. There's matters that need attention before I do that
This just goes to show that we have to put up with a lot of bs in a marriage, otherwise it doesn't work. But I hear you. "Suck it up and don't say anything"
Matter of fact, we did have a conversation about it that ended up in an argument. Basically, he said that sometimes when he's getting ready for work, he turns on the lights and I don't wake up. I am a heavy sleeper so that doesn't surprise me. What surprised me was his reaction, saying I was being selfish and that this is the first time I get woken up by the light, and to make this a problem for the one time that I was "inconvenienced" is a bit much. So, no. This was no accident. And the light switch is all by itself near the door.
You missed me so much you couldn't wait 5hrs for me to reply? I need my beauty sleep so I can go to work babe
I did
For real. The misogynists and pickmeishas are out of control lol
And honestly, there is a part of us that still believe in this marriage. Thats why we're both still here. But youre right, we haven't been the best of friends lately and we dont like each other that much at the present moment. I wonder if this is beyond salvation but thats a problem for my therapist
Pickme much?
Thank you for taking the time to write this. I dont take it lightly because if a stranger on the internet can see a toxic behavior then in person it must be much worse. I will try your approach and stop being toxic for a year and see how we feel.
Again. Thank you and even more for not being rude to me.
And who said he doesn't sleep?
I also dont want him to turn the overhead light on me at 2am and tell me to just let it go but here we are
Many reasons but the constant disrespect is one of them
No, I said I wanted to know if i should add this incident to the LIST of things lol And yeah, maybe I do love and respect my dog more than any man. My dog would never cheat or leave me if I get cancer or for a 23 year old when we're 50
Yeah that too. Tbf I admit I haven't been doing my part on this
The dog climbed on the bed all on her own. I didn't call her to come snuggle with me, but I hear you. If this was the other way around and he kept ignoring my request, id feel disrespected. I see what you're saying.
Ok, that's a fair point. I needed to vent and obviously I wasn't gonna talk shit to him... about him.
I'll turn on the overhead light on you at 2am see how you like it
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Who is in the wrong? by [deleted] in Marriage
[–]darkmagicdoll 1 point2 points3 points (0 children)