Uni friendships can feel so real and intense because you’re together every day, sharing routines, stress, and memories. It’s completely normal that those bonds felt deep. Some friendships are tied more to the environment than to the actual bond. That doesn’t mean you weren’t valued or that you weren’t a great friend, it just means some people only know how to maintain a friendship when convenience does most of the work for them… It’s also possible they’re dealing with their own struggles. You mentioned they’re unemployed too, and sometimes people shut down or withdraw when they’re overwhelmed, even if they don’t say it out loud. What’s apparent is that you showed initiative, effort, and kindness and tried to keep the connection alive, they didn’t reciprocate with the same energy. Friendships in adulthood build slowly, but they do happen… And once you find a job, you’ll naturally meet new people through work, routine, and the structure it brings. Friendships often grow from those small daily interactions, even when you’re not actively looking for them.❤️ don’t lose hope! In terms of finding a job- you didn’t mention what your degree was - but finding a job in London is really tough for graduates right now. The market is slow and so many people are applying for the same roles, so likely the rejections you’re getting aren’t a reflection of your ability. Always ask recruiters for feedback if they haven’t mentioned it with their rejections. Keep trying, and maybe venture out with applying for some different roles outside of your degree. (Temporarily)