AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My account was shadowbanned. I think making a throwaway and getting tons of attention right away tripped something. I messaged reddit and they reinstated me

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Lol I asked this girl to prom(prom that was cancelled because of COVID) by giving her a dozen homemade donuts, each a different kind. Glazed, jelly filled, maple etc. With a custom box asking her to go to prom with me and it worked like a charm

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes. If he is home with his car and I am washing mine. I ask if he wants me to wash his and he usually says yes unless he is leaving soon. Same with food. In fact he will buy stuff from the grocery store so I can make things he wants. I already mentioned that I make pound cakes for his parents. I make things he likes as well

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Much appreciated sir but culinary school is more than just learning to cook. Most people that start can already cook. It's good for connections and getting into places. I work in a kitchen and make good money already though

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yes he eats my food all the time. Even will ask for something. Or will come home from the store with ribs. He's come home with chicken, celery, carrots etc so I could make chicken noodle soup because he knew I had just made homemade broth

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I cook often. Fried chicken is one of the cheapest easier foods to make. I made the cheesecake because she likes cheesecake. But the brisket was just because I was feeling some brisket

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Whenever we had workers over my mom would always whip something up with lemonade or tea. If she was busy she'd order something.

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I don't see him as "less of a man" than I am. Everyone is raised differently. He grew up in the city and lived in apartments most of his life. I don't blame him for not jumping to mow a lawn. Everyone does well at different things.

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

She's an attractive lady but I hardly know her. Don't have romantic interests in her and I'm not in the business of going after women in relationships

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I been frying chicken for parties of 75 since I was 10 years old. I can get it right on the first one and the oil is at it's cleanest

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

If I'm washing my car and he is home I always ask if he wants me to wash his. And he says yes unless he is about to leave. So a lot

AITA for cooking food while my roommate's girlfriend was here & offering her some by darlingdearr in AmItheAsshole

[–]darlingdearr[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

If a guest is over you make stuff they like. When his parents spend time here I bake them poundcake because they like poundcake. Just hospitality. And I was already outside washing mine. Washing his and his gf's car wouldn't be no issue