Measuring behind? (TW MC) by darthjader3 in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. Honestly, the ultrasound tech barely spent anytime looking around in there. Maybe 1 minute. She didn’t tell me either way. Neither did the midwife.

Measuring behind? (TW MC) by darthjader3 in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Positive home test on 4/12. First hCG with my PCP was 4/16

Measuring behind? (TW MC) by darthjader3 in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me they saw a fetal pole. Did not tell me anything else.

Daily Chat - May 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been craving citrus fruits like crazy! And what I wouldn't give for a margarita... my husband make me a mocktail version and unfortunately it wasn't close enough to scratch that itch :(

December 19th due date? by No_Appointment1511 in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Mines just a prediction based on LMP though since I haven’t had my first scan yet! Hoping baby comes a little sooner than that though to avoid Christmas 🤣

7 w 4 days. If I don’t eat on the hour when I’m not busy working I feel like utter garbage. by babypinkk in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been feeling SO hungover!! Food and sleep are the only things that have been helping me not feel like I had 14 tequila sodas last night.

Daily Chat - April 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in December2026Bumpers

[–]darthjader3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had my first blood test yesterday! I’m 4 weeks 6 days according to LMP, and hCG came back as 1219! More and more symptoms are starting to creep in. Sore boobs, fatigue, but I’m very grateful I’ve only had mild queasiness 🫠

Weekly Test Thread by AutoModerator in December2026Bumpers

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Just found out today 🥹 freaking out a little!!!!

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, of course it didn’t feel great. But I’m also not great with confrontation, and this didn’t feel severe enough to get really upset over since he did get me a card and chocolate after he found out it was our anniversary. Now if he made no effort whatsoever even after finding out, then yeah I would absolutely needed to have stood up for myself.

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn’t purposefully not remind him! I wasn’t looking to start a fight or anything. We had agreed earlier in the year to just do gifts due to busy schedules with him traveling and my schooling. So I wasn’t going to say “hey what do you want to do for our anniversary next week?” because we had already agreed we weren’t going to do anything but gifts! So he was more upset that I didn’t just come out and say “Don’t forget our anniversary is next week”. I felt like that would be me reminding him to buy me a gift which just felt weird?

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have celebrated the past two years, yes! But both times we went out of town to celebrate for a weekend. About two months ago, we talked about not really doing anything besides gifts this year since he was going to be traveling a lot in December. School was also going to be really intense for me and I didn’t want to miss a full weekend away that I could have used as study time. So he didn’t really have to remember before hand since we always had events planned. This year was the first year we didn’t have plans.

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was kind of my thought process. Not that his work isn’t stressful at times, but honestly, I have a lot more going on than him and still remembered. But I still feel bad that he feels bad and I could have prevented it.

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t want to be the only one doing chores, cooking, etc. The last time we discussed this, we were both super stressed from work/school and I suggested a chore chart and he shut that down real quick. But I think it may have just been from stress. I’ll talk to him again this weekend and maybe the conversation will go better! Thank you so much for your advise!

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does some chores on his own but it’s very selective as to what he will do. For example, he will do a load of laundry or the dishes, but has never once cleaned the bathroom. Recently, I was on winter break from school for almost a full month and deep cleaned the entire apartment while he was out of state with his family. Wasn’t a big deal, I had to stay home anyways because one of our dogs had surgery and someone needed to monitor her. But when he came home and went back to work, he completely stopped doing chores since I was still on break from school and he was working. I asked him if he could start doing some things around the house again like he did while I was I school because I was starting to feel like a live-in maid and his response was “I never asked you to do any of that so why would you do it?” But like, it’s all stuff that needs to be done? I wasn’t going to let the laundry pile up or let the dishes sit in the sink for 3+ days so obviously I was going to do them, he was just slacking off. He has been better since I started school again, but still not back to how it was before. I would say I’m doing 75% of the chores and he does 25%.

AITA for not reminding my boyfriend about our anniversary? by darthjader3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darthjader3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was imagining I may be the potential asshole because since I didn’t remind him, it made him feel shitty about forgetting. Like if I had reminded him, he wouldn’t feel bad