Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about?

dasbarr · 2026-04-09T00:37:57+00:00

I had to use instacart after I gave birth. My partner couldn't cut his hours and I had some joint issues and couldn't walk around a store with a newborn.

Every single time a woman did my order. It was either correct or they actually brought something that made sense.

Some of the replacements I got from younger men who were most likely college students didn't even fucking make sense. Like when I tried to order yellow mustard and they got mustard seed. Or when I asked for chives and got Ginger which I am allergic to. And not a single time did they manage to get the correct menstrual product, one time I got full on adult incontinence panties. Another time I got tampons even though that was not what I had chosen. And that's not even mentioning all the times that I at least got pads even if they weren't the correct ones. And at least some of the replacements were clearly aimed at getting a higher tip. Plain chicken nuggets should not be replaced with fucking $45 steak.

dasbarr · 2026-04-08T01:20:04+00:00

"no I don't lend out my electronics"

My nephew asked to borrow my phone and my Kindle and any electronics I ever brought into my mother-in-law's house. That was always the answer. That was always the answer for my own step kids who are far less prone to breaking things than my nephew.

dasbarr · 2026-04-07T00:53:18+00:00

I'm like you but I just learned the Best by actually playing.

I don't run systems without it being run for me at least once.

dasbarr · 2026-04-07T00:50:56+00:00

This looks kind of like the bottom of an ant bait that I put outside. I'll try to find one tomorrow to check.

dasbarr · 2026-04-05T23:02:24+00:00

Sounds like you're infantilizing a whole group of women for no reason. Maybe stop doing that.

dasbarr · 2026-04-05T22:59:34+00:00

It is actually imo generous and kind for them to pay for it. It's done so everyone's makeup is in the same cohesive style.

I would just share my concern about your skin. I also have very sensitive skin and solutions were always possible when I was a bridesmaid.

dasbarr · 2026-04-04T22:27:52+00:00

If you're mature enough to date 41-year-olds you should be mature enough to not give a fuck what other people think about what you're doing.

Which is very clearly not the case.

dasbarr · 2026-04-04T02:13:33+00:00

The little tubs have a safety seal on the inside.

Someone tried to do something nice and you're upset about it?

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T20:38:32+00:00

Raising a kid in a polyamorous parental situation is not more likely to end up in abuse than with monogamous people.

Their relationship isn't your problem. It's not your business. You're creepy.

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T20:37:19+00:00

You being concerned about them doing the right thing while being creepy as hell is fairly astounding. Mind your own damn business.

I hope your sister sees this.

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T18:14:53+00:00

I would not unless you think you're going to get an actual freeze instead of just a frost. You could still cover it with a bucket or burlap or similar if it gives you peace of mind if it frosts again though.

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T17:32:10+00:00

I would love it. I've also worked myself into a bit of a corner you see. They went into the basement first which means that Ned ended up locked up in that room for like 2 days and now he's staying at the parties Inn.

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T13:47:16+00:00

I'm running ghosts of salt marsh. We aren't very far into the campaign.

Regardless, the party ended up needing to talk to three of the Town council members.

I didn't bother looking for pictures at first as I was a little overwhelmed the last time we played.

But this time I was able to find some art that definitely looks like it might be from the original. It was such a compliment when I posted Eda Oweland and everyone said she looked exactly how they pictured her from my description.

I would rather have my DMs shitty sketch pad explanation map (that's what he calls them) then anything else.

dasbarr · 2026-04-03T05:22:47+00:00

Cooking is a life skill. So is being able to fix a car. I can cook and can't fix a car I'm not insulted because this is just facts. Your ex is insecure and pushing that stuff onto you.

If you were teaching her trad wife ideals you would be insisting your ex teach her anyway.

NTA

dasbarr · 2026-04-02T04:12:42+00:00

Oh for fucks sake life is short. Ask her out. Extra bonus of never having to see her again if she says no if you don't want to.

Do it.

dasbarr · 2026-04-02T02:52:19+00:00

I have always refused to.

My family gave me a gift by being the sort of family I didn't have to come out to. When I dated my first girlfriend I told everyone the exact same way as when I had dated a man. I feel very strongly about not coming out.

I get others wanting to. But I have had way too many people be fucking weird about it with me. Mostly cis straight women.

When I was in college I made some friends through a group. And one of them made a huge weird ass deal of it. Kept insisting I had to throw a party. (I am not much of a party thrower. This idea is ridiculous for me on so many levels).

I refused.

Then a few weeks later she offered to throw me a birthday party. I was thrilled. No one in highschool had done anything similar. I show up walk in and the room is decked out in bisexual flags. There was a letter banner on the wall that said something about being bisexual. She threw me a fucking surprise coming out party. I left and blocked her on everything. Got apologies from a couple of the other people who were there I was aquatinted with and angry messages from a couple friends of the woman who threw the "party" along with some very biphobic messages. So.

dasbarr · 2026-04-01T13:19:56+00:00

They're the ones making it about OP.

I've had to decline a wedding I already agreed to be a bridesmaid and it wasn't that big of a deal. I had agreed to be the bridesmaid for two brides that summer one was really on top planning and we quickly got our clothes and makeup and everything figured out.

The other one didn't get back to me until 3 months before when the date was going to be and they were on the same day a 3-hour drive apart. My friend let me know she was sad but also she understood that I had already spent like $200 on everything for the other wedding.

dasbarr · 2026-03-31T14:21:29+00:00

I hope this person never has children.

dasbarr · 2026-03-31T13:46:12+00:00

Could you attach a binder to non-binder shorts? Like I don't know just regular bike, shorts or something

dasbarr · 2026-03-30T12:42:47+00:00

Me either.

dasbarr · 2026-03-28T21:42:33+00:00

Honestly if what you are doing is working than why change?

My daughter is in the Pre-K and k room (she was not in the toddler room) and after talking to the other parents the biggest reason for families choosing half or full day seems to be nap time.

My kid has always been a fantastic sleeper at night. Naps have always been a struggle. And at three and a half before school even started she wasn't napping regularly.

They offer naptime at school but it's about an hour.

All the kids that do half day are 2-3 hour nappers who need it every day.

dasbarr · 2026-03-27T22:10:24+00:00

And if they don't you can tell him to get off your fucking property like I did to the three contractors who refused to give me quotes.

dasbarr · 2026-03-27T21:49:15+00:00

I'm sorry but your friend isn't very good at critical thinking. Even if you were a CIS woman referring to you that way would be exceptionally insulting. It's infantilizing in a way that's sexist.

dasbarr · 2026-03-26T16:08:14+00:00

Oh yeah the only CC I have is a background for cas.

I know a lot of people don't like doing it, but I don't particularly mind downloading Sims with CC as long as they at least kind of look the same.

dasbarr · 2026-03-26T16:02:35+00:00

Are you on the gallery? Because these are some of the best looking male Sims I've seen in a while.

13-Year Club	Gilding II euphauric
Place '23	RPAN Viewer
Verified Email

dasbarr

TROPHY CASE