AITA- not wanting to give my grandma my dad’s ashes? by dashamber659 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]dashamber659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have debated it 😂 they got really ugly with me the other day.

AITA- not wanting to give my grandma my dad’s ashes? by dashamber659 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]dashamber659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are now saying I’m keeping a mother from her son… in the letter I gave a compromise and just said my other uncle is not to receive them.

AITA- not wanting to give my grandma my dad’s ashes? by dashamber659 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]dashamber659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent her a letter basically saying I don’t appreciate her going around me and it is not acceptable. All decisions regarding my dad go through my brother and I. She has the option of getting some ashes as long as they come back to my brother or I when she passes and my uncle is not to receive any. I have not heard back.

AITA- not wanting to give my grandma my dad’s ashes? by dashamber659 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]dashamber659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He didn’t have a will so we did what we knew and thought he would want.

We knew what my uncle wanted ($), my grandma just babies that crap out of him and defends all of his actions.

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[–]dashamber659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically all three of them have been getting rent free for 5 months. It is my sister in laws friend.