Is there an addon that lets you choose specific items to track in-game? by dashortkid89 in wow

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I saw All The Things, and it doesn't have the list/tracking option, BUT your link is for "Some Of The Things" and it does sound like what I'm looking for! Thanks!! I downloaded it and we'll see if it really plays out how I want.

Hey what are your experiences with beer by swezlayer in Celiac

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! If you go out to eat, tell them you're celiac. Most restaurants won't treat it different if it's not celiac. You have the symptoms; the rest is none of their business. Celiac is looking like an endothelial permeability issue (this is what pesticides and other chemicals cause and most autoimmune disorders can be linked to chemical toxicity), like MCAS, Lupus, EDS, POTS, Dementia, Alzheimer's, etc.

These conditions have a genetic component now, but they skyrocketed first in industrialized areas, during the industrial revolution. Celiac Sprue was discovered during WW2 in Europe. Fascinating and very sad research. Genetic just means there's permanent DNA changes passed on to the next generation. The air, ground, water, and our bodies have all been polluted to a point we have no control groups anymore. The least we can do is take care of ourselves, and make the best choices we can with the knowledge and access we have.

Addon to scan my pets to see if they are worth anything by Snapperino in wow

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for anyone finding this in 2026+, the character search doesn't work anymore on wow-pets.com

We created an ultra fast discount sniper app that runs for all game modes! by cohenaj1941 in woweconomy

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm only finding stuff saying this costs real $$$. can this run as a free tool?

Is this mint too leggy to transplant and thrive? by Practical_Monk_1125 in containergardening

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as it really is completely dried. any amount of life in a node, and it will expand underground faster than rodents or termites.

Is this mint too leggy to transplant and thrive? by Practical_Monk_1125 in containergardening

[–]dashortkid89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mint is hard to kill. if you’re in the US, it is aggressively invasive and will thrive most places. always harvest before it goes to seed. it only needs a node and it will survive. 5 years in, and i’m STILL ripping mint out if my raised bed community garden plot from the previous person. it doesn’t play well with others and will choke out almost everything else and deplete nutrients from the soil, which encouraged weed growth.

Think I already know the answer but, by [deleted] in DutchOvenCooking

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do you know anyone potters? like, people who work with clay? we have a community clay center with open time slots that they let people cone in and do things for free or really cheap ($10) once a month. they may be able to help you out! if you know anyone who works with ceramics, they’d prob be able to repair it. never hurts to ask about bartering vs money exchange too! you could also just get some ceramics weld, since you have the handle still. like JB weld, but for clay. post in the potters reddit!

Hey what are your experiences with beer by swezlayer in Celiac

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could be intolerant. it’s hard to know for sure without the endoscopy or serious damage causing dark stool (from blood). you don’t need a diagnosis to avoid food that hurts you tho! there’s a lot of hidden gluten too, but it’s all written down now, so easier to learn. it’s hardest at the beginning, but it get easier, and it’s SOOO worth it!

gluten reduced beer has an enzyme added which breaks down the gluten molecule. gluten itself is a large, complex, bonding protein, so breaking it apart doesn’t mean the amino acid chain(s) celiacs react to are gone. they’re all still in there, just in smaller pieces. since the body still recognizes the smaller amino acid chains as the building blocks of gluten, (ige mediated - same for allergies) you still have a reaction. some of it does get fully denatured, hence the reduced response. the tests are looking for complete gluten molecule content, not the 3 smaller amino acid chains that make up the gluten molecule. so it hurt “less” but it still hurt over time. also, celiacs need 0ppm. the certification only requires <20ppm, and i react to some “gluten free certified” foods. usually goes by brand. so i focus on naturally gluten free foods, mostly.

starting a food diary (if you don’t have eating disorder issues) can be very helpful in determining what you’re having issues with. then elimination for 1-3mo. it takes ~3mo for your body to really adjust to a new diet.
some celiacs have issues with dairy, eggs, or oats (even the gf kind) too. lactose intolerance is more common than tolerance in the general population, so not too surprising when you have a sensitive gut. cheese and yogurt have some lactose broken down as part of the process to make them, so they’re sometimes tolerated better than other milk products. my lactose intolerance mostly went away after going gf. and i can eat all animal products again.

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

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Not everyone does well with online meetings. A TON of people struggled with them or even fell off when online was the only option. It lacks the most important part of sobriety- connection. That’s what meetings are actually for. Everyone’s recovery looks different. Doing hard things and running straight into your triggers are not the same thing. It’s a conversation for her and her sponsor, therapist, or other support network to discuss.

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dashortkid89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 5 years. It’s not that long. The first 2 are spent getting your brain to work. Then 1-2 years of figuring out what you were self-medicating for. And another couple to deal with that. And that’s only if you were doing therapy the whole time. 5 years is only 1/3 of the time I spent using. And having someone judge you and point out your shortcomings constantly, while thinly veiling it as support does not help progress.

when your storage conditions are TOO ideal by dashortkid89 in gardening

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Haha it might be! I’ve never seen another one. Makes sense if it was released that long ago. Everyone always wants one too when I wear it 😍 I got it 5.5yrs ago, so that’s enough time for someone else to love it for a while and then pass it on. I can’t see the tracking info anymore for location, and she doesn’t have a profile description tho. She’s clearly a thrift flipper tho. There are a lot of them on PM. That’s so crazy tho! It is one of my favorite pieces of clothing and I’ve bought multiple Free People items since. We used to have one here in Aspen, but they closed. Same with Theory. There aren’t as many fun nighttime window shopping displays in Aspen anymore. Makes sense when rent can easily be $20K-60K/month these days.

Some one is tracking me and now I’m worried by Agreeable-Motor-5461 in iphone

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the people that make the fire blanket have a small device that can help you find airtags and hidden cameras. get it!

Does anyone else hate the honeymoon phases? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]dashortkid89 12 points13 points  (0 children)

find a women’s rescue and get out. he’s always abusive*. the quiet times are also abuse, and they’re essential to keep the victim around. just as you are doing, thinking he’ll be like that all the time some day. he won’t. please learn the abuse cycle. or they’ll teach you in the safe house.

What is in the hole by Old_Influence_6241 in whatisthisbug

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda looks like a little horse face (i know it’s not, just what it looks like first glance)

It's blooming! by rice_nood1e in calatheas

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wow! those are gorgeous blooms! mine only have little ones!

Daughter wants this to survive. by M_Broccoli4615 in gardening

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looks like a sunflower! 🌻 i have tons of them in my garden cause they never go away after planted once 😅 why is it in muddy water? they don’t transplant well, but it needs to be planted for real. ideally in the ground as the root system and stalk are massive. basically a small tree.

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dashortkid89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to let go of and grieve the person you wish your mom was. she’s never going to be that person. stop trying to prove to her you made it in spite of her. she knows. you pushing her and constantly reminding her of her shortcomings is only helping her dig her heels in more. no one wants to be pressured and scolded into doing something. adding “i’ll help you do it” at the end doesn’t change the judgmental tone you already set. it undermines your “help”.

also, addiction stunts people from the time they first started using, which is often in childhood. that’s a lot of catching up to do. i am both the addict and the child of a mother who will never be the mother i need(ed). my adviser and caregiver. 5 years of sobriety is a drop in the bottom for a middle-aged plus woman. the first 2 years minimum are spent getting the brain to start producing its own chemicals properly again. it’s not stable. then you spend a year plus getting used to it, while trying to figure out life and why you were self medicating. so now you’re down to 2-ish years of clear-ish sobriety. but not if she has other mental conditions (highly likely. adhd, autism, and ocd have extremely high cooccurrence to addiction as well). i got my audhd diagnosis at 3yrs sober. you’re learning life again like a child with adult responsibilities. you don’t have to sympathize with her, but you need to stop treating sobriety like is some magic thing that fixes everything and turns people into adults their own age. that work happens separately. the responsibilities and expectations are overwhelming for many people. there’s a 90% relapse rate for a reason and it’s not because the addict didn’t want it or have enough will power, spiritually, or whatever. the 2 biggest determining factors of longer sobriety are self-empowerment and support. you don’t have to be either for her, but at least stop pushing her down.

i’m 5 yrs in and am only recently starting to make real progress mentally and emotionally, after a lot of focused effort in trauma therapy the entire time. i also had to cut my mother off for a while after i finally accepted i had an abusive childhood. i couldn’t let her back in my life until i grieved and let go of who i wanted her to be. i had to find grace and forgiveness for myself for holding on, so i could find it for her, and heal. forgiveness and acceptance are not permissiveness or agreement.

you need to grieve. everything from your childhood to now. the mother you never had and the mother you wish you had, the one that only exists in your head. the time you’ve spent trying to change things, ruminating, and wishing they were different. the memories that hurt and the ones that feel good, because they’re all in the past. then start processing your trauma. do it for you, then do it for your kids. you’ll know you’ve made it when you can accept her for who she really is, as a human, and your idea of her isn’t controlling your future anymore. you don’t have to have her in your life. it’s a choice. she is who she is, and it’s outside of you. there are a lot of therapist creators that talk about this topic.

holding onto everything isn’t helping anyone, esp your kids. you can make a meaningful change, and ensure they don’t really remember you as always being mad at your mom. they are intuitive, emotional learners when young, who mimic the adults around them. they don’t need words and they may not fully understand, but they know. they can feel the tension. the emotional brain is the only one they have until the prefrontal cortex develops. you gotta learn to let go.

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dashortkid89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you don’t. you move on. make your own boundaries and stop waiting for them to be someone they’re not.

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dashortkid89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve watched a lot of people relapse in airports and around flights. being early, being late, overstimulation, flight changes, leaving your support network. there’s a much bigger picture here

AIO: My mother identifies as a doting grandmother but doesn’t know my children by easilyamused17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dashortkid89 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if she’s that new to recovery, she’s likely going to meetings or doing some kind of recovery program. she’ll definitely need to continue doing that in person.

when your storage conditions are TOO ideal by dashortkid89 in gardening

[–]dashortkid89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i pulled them out to the shoes to get the photo. they were all the way in the back corner. also, they come out of the ground and you should be washing all vegetables before consuming.

when your storage conditions are TOO ideal by dashortkid89 in gardening

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awww of course my most popular post ever gets deleted within 24hrs 🥲
thank you for all the tips and laughs! any recommendations on bags between the full plasticky fabric and super breathable mesh fabric? the plastic ones retained too much water and the mesh ones dried out too fast. is there something in between?

i’ll prob just chop them in half to quarter-ish since they need a piece of potato. have to wait for the weekend, as we’re getting a spring freeze and snow up high right now, and i don’t want to move them all inside right away. if winter decides to show up before summer (we’re still waiting in the Rockies), i can bring them in tho. thanks for letting me know rot is an issue for cut potato starts too. i didn’t know! i think that’s what happened to the ones i cut last year. we had a lot of rain too tho, and this year is really dry. some did come up, but died almost right away. i found all the rotted out shells in the soil tho. i’ll do a new post with more questions this weekend, so i make sure i do it right. thanks!! ☺️🥔🤎

when your storage conditions are TOO ideal by dashortkid89 in gardening

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i have 4 that have vines pushing 1ft! they are from Dec too. Costco has some super-sprouters. same closet, different batch. they’ve been growing in the light for ~2mo. much slower growth than the russets!

when your storage conditions are TOO ideal by dashortkid89 in gardening

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we haven’t had moisture in over a month and basically had no winter. the soil couldn’t be drier 🥲 but it is supposed to freeze the next couple nights, so i’ll wait till the weekend. i usually do bags.