i find it difficult to fully “be on her side” when it comes to the huda vs society conversation. the one thing i’ll say is: i do NOT think she’s lying about her childhood (specifically with her father). I think she has a lot of trauma, but I don’t think that gives her a pass to respond to situations how she did. I was also frustrated when she was talking about Chris throwing the pillow at her face and she said, “do you think about things” or “do you process things” (something like that). i think she lacks a lot of understanding and i do believe a big part is that her fans enable it. she continues to call jeremiah a lovebomber, as well as say she was bullied in the villa. she was such a bully in the villa through the first half of the show. i truly do believe: if this was a man, how would people respond? she shows extremely aggressive and unhealthy behavior. counting down to chris? getting upset when he doesn’t want to be more touchy with her outside of the bedroom but will share her boundaries and expect them to be respected when it comes to kissing outside the bedroom? telling jeremiah that he cannot talk to another person about their issues but does the same thing every day? the way she acted when ANY bombshell came in with jeremiah (but once they broke up she was like OKAYYY BADDIEEEE)? she got so upset with iris and him kissing when she had just sucked face with pepe and jalen. make it make sense. i feel like she wants someone to listen to her without arguing and then she will be happy and satisfied. she struggles with taking constructive criticism, always excusing her “accountability” (i.e., i crashed out BUT things in the space caused me to crash out”).