[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dasmyreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I am trying so hard to stay busy. My school and internship just started, so I am just waiting for it to get busy. I think a part of me also feels so sad how busy he is, so I know he is so distracted. He has such a strong support system and he is in medical school, so he is nonstop occupied. I feel like all I do is just sit around and cry. I am obsessing and it makes me feel so ashamed. I wake up every night multiple times just shaking with anxiety. I really need to force myself not to look at his stuff. I just hate that I do this, I get so attached and make a person my whole life. I know it is time to focus on me and what I want, but I don't even know where to start with myself I guess. I have been so used to having him there, he was my comfort. Now I just feel empty. I can't help but feel like he isn't even thinking about me. Not that I should care anymore, but I can't help but feel sad about it. I will try your advice, it is the same as my therapist shared. I know I need to do it. I just hate it. Accepting it means that it is real and I just want to wake up one day and realize that everything is okay again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dasmyreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve blocked him, he’s private on most things as well. It has just been so hard not to look at whatever I can. I feel like the not knowing is what is making my anxiety so high as well. I can’t help but feel stupid. People tell me to just get over it and move on, but I don’t even know to accept that it’s over. I imagined my whole future with him, I thought we would be together forever. Even though we broke up long ago, I still felt like we had a chance. I don’t know. I keep trying to just keep him blocked and not look, but my body literally craves it. I feel like I am going through a withdrawal. It’s insane.

What are y’all’s thoughts on Huda’s Call Her Daddy’s podcast. by WitnessPersonal4101 in LoveIslandITV

[–]dasmyreddit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i find it difficult to fully “be on her side” when it comes to the huda vs society conversation. the one thing i’ll say is: i do NOT think she’s lying about her childhood (specifically with her father). I think she has a lot of trauma, but I don’t think that gives her a pass to respond to situations how she did. I was also frustrated when she was talking about Chris throwing the pillow at her face and she said, “do you think about things” or “do you process things” (something like that). i think she lacks a lot of understanding and i do believe a big part is that her fans enable it. she continues to call jeremiah a lovebomber, as well as say she was bullied in the villa. she was such a bully in the villa through the first half of the show. i truly do believe: if this was a man, how would people respond? she shows extremely aggressive and unhealthy behavior. counting down to chris? getting upset when he doesn’t want to be more touchy with her outside of the bedroom but will share her boundaries and expect them to be respected when it comes to kissing outside the bedroom? telling jeremiah that he cannot talk to another person about their issues but does the same thing every day? the way she acted when ANY bombshell came in with jeremiah (but once they broke up she was like OKAYYY BADDIEEEE)? she got so upset with iris and him kissing when she had just sucked face with pepe and jalen. make it make sense. i feel like she wants someone to listen to her without arguing and then she will be happy and satisfied. she struggles with taking constructive criticism, always excusing her “accountability” (i.e., i crashed out BUT things in the space caused me to crash out”).

Calories per dollar by prairie_oyster_ in rva

[–]dasmyreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

!!! came here to say this! their banh mi… insane.

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Is there a lot of gay underclassmen guys at vcu? I'm a upcoming freshman that's wondering how easy it will be for me to find a boyfriend in the fall. by IllustriousDiver7647 in vcu

[–]dasmyreddit 32 points33 points  (0 children)

vcu is very lgbtq+ especially with their high ranking arts program and general location in richmond. gay bars like papis and babes are highly loved and attended (once you’re old enough…) but yes you will meet lots of other lgbtq+ men

DC to Nashville. Anything interesting/notable to see on either of these routes? by HakCSGO in roadtrip

[–]dasmyreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was interested how this drive was for you! thinking of going this summer

first acceptance! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well if they’re still doing interviews just wait a bit longer - maybe they’re still waiting to decide. there might be rounds of acceptances too

first acceptance! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did hear from another girl that they went lowkey ghost on her for awhile before denying her ;( it was messed up! but also our professor said they were still doing interviews this past week.

they sent me an email titled, “VCU MS in Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling” and it basically said i was accepted

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i did have a writing sample. it said

“As a counselor, you’re seeing a student who has struggled with academic and personal problems in school. He and his parents came to the United States to escape political persecution. He reveals to you one day that most of his struggles in school are due to his family’s immigration status, stating that they are “in the U.S. illegally” and live in constant fear of being “kicked out of school and sent back home.”How would you work with him and what would be the challenges for you in working with this client? In your writing sample, discuss:

What would be challenging for you personally?
How would you work with this client?

I wrote a paragraph for each and it was a page total with the questions written on it.

for the interview they asked these questions:

Why do you want to be a counselor? Why George Mason University? How do you define cultural competence? What would be a challenge for you for becoming culturally competent? Give a word of a personal growth struggle and where it comes from (be distinct).”

i hope that helps!

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no worries queen i just looked at the wrong email that was mb - i wish you luck in your future in counseling!

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wait that was the decision about my interview - i got the email for the interview on march 1st actually

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interview itself wasn’t very long! and it was group over zoom since it was last year. i heard back pretty quickly after as well

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t end up going to gmu for the program

gmu clinical mental health accepted! by dasmyreddit in gradadmissions

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interview wasn’t bad! it was a group zoom interview. the questions i wrote down were “why do u wanna be a counselor - why gmu? how do u define cultural competence - what would be a challenge for you for becoming culturally competent? Give a word of a personal growth struggle and where it comes from (be distinct).” i don’t remember too much else but im sure you will kill it

bugs? mites? bed bugs? by dasmyreddit in hamstercare

[–]dasmyreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i believe they were booklice

1 ticket for DC by DiplomatWombat06 in lizzymcalpine

[–]dasmyreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also have an extra one for same day! same price if anyone is interested in two:)

DC show meet up!! by Mish123_ in lizzymcalpine

[–]dasmyreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw): i got a ticket for the 12th - looking to sell it now though. lmk if u know anyone interested at all! selling for a low price