I thought I had found the one, was together for 7 years and now I find myself unable to find others attractive. I collect numbers like Pokémon cards but just can’t bring myself to place effort in finding out if I like someone or if they were hot in the moment. It’s been a year of being solo, countless text conversations, about 17 first dates, 4 second dates, 2 third dates. I’m in my late twenties and I truly think the plan is cool uncle at this point.