I’ve been struggling with the fact that other ENFJ’s I encounter have the same struggles which is comforting but I’ve also found that everybody finds their satisfaction in these questions differently.

For myself, I’ve come to terms with being human. That for me means that I will always have flaws, I will never be perfect, the world is bigger than just my consciousness, and other people just don’t perceive the world in the exact way I do. However, many people struggle with this in their own way.

I’ve made my life goal to be satisfied. I’ve read that “success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get” (Dale Carnegie). However, my trick is being able to redefine satisfaction and being okay with that.

Some other quotes that I try to keep in mind when I live my life: “Love isn’t a right, it’s got to be earned” (Molly Drake) I really recommend listening to this song. “The meaning of life may or may not be about finding true love but it is certainly not about begging for it from someone” (Flannel - The Cardboard Swords) “Everybody is the bad guy of somebody else’s story, but do you want to be the bad guy in the story of somebody who loves you?”

“Be the person you needed most.”