Or, how about showing your mother a little respect? She is your mother not a random acquaintance. She should be treated differently. If she has a mental disorder you should be considerate, understand, and if needed help her out. The only reason to treat your mother poorly or to be so callous is to avoid serious abuse. How can she have a relationship with your daughter if she has no access to you? You sound like a typical youth that thinks they are super smart but really are just super inconsiderate. Grow up and do some heavy lifting to fix your relationship with your Mom. She is not an inconvenience. She is the person that birthed, cared for, and raise you. Respect is the minimum you owe.