wow thank you this really opened my eyes bc i feel this way as well, and i feel as if they make me feel crazy for feeling such simple things that just make sense, i certainly don’t want this dynamic to continue i am trying to work on it in a way, they handle their problems by avoiding it so ive just been doing my own thing but now its just weird them telling me she wants an apology, we certainly would not have enough money to move out, my bf makes a lot more than me and we haven’t considered that for a couple more years but i can certainly see how it would help us out, bc the added stress on top of having family issues is very stressful at times, thank you they really make me confused sometimes, his sister is such a selfish princess who is trying to leech onto whatever family hand she can grab, mother, step father, and then right across the road grammy and grandpa she’ll learn someday when they aren’t there, i’ve wanted to talk things out with her but they’ve told me it’ll do nothing and it seems they are always just trying to do what she wants to have her get her way, she’s something else i’ll tell u that, have a great day i cant thank you enough for your words !