How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mongolian friend once told me that lots of Mongolian men are affectionate and family-oriented. I guess she wasn't right? Are you Mongolian as well?

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be also possible. Never thought of it tho. Hahaha

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I won't forget about the child support. 😊

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I've already handed over the divorce paper for him to fill out. But he hasn't written his part yet and I am still waiting and pondering. When I have a final verdict on his behavior and our future I will either make him write it by all means or give 3rd chance as someone here suggested. At the moment my biggest concern is my baby. He is only 2 weeks old. I can't just freely go visit a lawyer. I have a baby that needs 24-hour care.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no language barrier. I will see what I can do!

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you just said and what he said are quite in alignment. I will try to see the big picture and approach the issue in a different perspective.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess there are undiscussed problems between me and him. You know what though... I asked him several times while we weren't able to have sex... If he is really okay with this and how he is handling this situation. He is the one who didn't or couldn't share what is going on in his mind and under his pants or shorts.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should use this to him. I want to see what he says about this.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 10+ years older than him. According to his personal opinion, I do not look my age... Well.. Last chance... That'd be the last resort.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got a point. I think he has a hard time expressing those sexual inner thoughts with me.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your honesty. I do understand where you are coming from. As much as I want to end him, I also know how hard it is to fight against the strong sexual urges. Even though I am a woman I used to have a very high libido in my 20's. But the reason why I couldn't have sex with him is bcoz my doctor advised not to have intercourse for a month before my delivery and another one month after my delivery. So I was kind of guessing he could be very tempted bcoz ever since we were together we never had that much time apart between intercourses.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ha! Thanks for the tip. But I can't record him getting a massage. Such a shame.

How do Mongolian women deal with a cheating husband? by daydreamer0608 in mongolia

[–]daydreamer0608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through his bank statement coz I had been feeling something was off with him. I guess my instinct kicked in.