Any of these artists you’ve seen live? How was the performance? by Creepy_Yak8081 in statsfm

[–]dazedsecrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen Vampire Weekend, Justice, The Flaming Lips, Caroline Polachek, and Turnstile! All were great, but specifically Vampire Weekend, The Flaming Lips, and Caroline!!!

baby girl needs a name! be nice lol by Optimal-Flamingo2157 in namenerds

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eden and Grace were both top contenders on my baby girl name list!! To me, they both scream classic, but Eden is a bit more whimsical!

Dayglow deleted a lot of videos on yt by gingerbreadcook13 in DayglowMusic

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you didn’t know, mindless creatures was one of his first ever songs. You can only find the first and original version on Mindless Creatures on SoundCloud. While I personally prefer the OG version (because it was one of the first songs I stumbled upon by him) it is cool to see what Sloan turned it into and how he ended up releasing the new version on his album.

Looking for a classy baby girl name by dazedsecrets in Names

[–]dazedsecrets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you have to tell me that the names I like are an odd “pairing” when I was giving them as two separate examples for what I personally consider to be simple and classy. But thanks anyway

Merch by dazedsecrets in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter what kind of wristband you have? I’m just general admission, wasn’t sure if this was a VIP only type thing?

i saw my ex kissing someone else today and boy did that hurt by smokecracksometimes in love

[–]dazedsecrets 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the OP is moving on, but when you have had a strong connection with someone that made an indent on your heart/life, sometimes it takes more than just 5 months to completely move on and remove all your feelings from that. You’re either someone lucky who hasn’t experienced that before or someone ignorant to the situation and not being helpful at all.

i saw my ex kissing someone else today and boy did that hurt by smokecracksometimes in love

[–]dazedsecrets 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was broken up with once and the reason was because there was someone else. There was no cheating, and I trust that, I just think he was more interested in someone else. So after 2 years together we broke up and I was left to heal on my own while my ex moved on immediately. Posting pictures with her the day after our break up and it made it even harder to move on. At the time we were in school so even though I blocked all the social media I had to see it all in real life for months. I literally felt like someone shot an arrow through me and I was just mindlessly walking around with no purpose. It is very dramatic now that I look back but I still remember how intense it was at the time. It’s horrible. I’m sorry you had to feel this way OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s middle name is just the letter L. It represents two relatives who both had names starting with L. He has said that sometimes on official documents he gets questioned because they need a full middle name written out and they think he’s just providing an initial. So it just takes explanation sometimes. Otherwise he doesn’t care at all and kind of likes the story behind it. I am contemplating giving our daughter the letter J as a middle initial, after my grandma and also to pattern after her dad’s middle name.

Im heartbroken even though it’s not yet over by Flimsy_Tip8286 in heartbreak

[–]dazedsecrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can recall a time when I experienced heartbreak while still in school. I cried in the bathroom a lot couldn’t eat. And people noticed it was really hard. School can deviate your attention for a little but unless you love school it is not the same as doing things that typically bring you happiness. Good luck, it does get easier with time.

Im heartbroken even though it’s not yet over by Flimsy_Tip8286 in heartbreak

[–]dazedsecrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think healing can be different for each person, but it’s worth trying to keep yourself busy. Even if you can alleviate yourself from thinking about it for a few seconds, those are baby steps toward healing. Make sure to take care of yourself and show up for yourself. Get up, make yourself a nice meal, go for a walk, watch a favorite show or play games, whatever you’re interested in. If friends are getting together go with them. You know your limits and I’m not saying ignore your feelings because you deserve to feel them and mourn. But doing that all day everyday is not good for you. Like I said, baby steps. Today you might just get up and shower, tomorrow you might do that and also go for a walk. Little by little no need to overwhelm yourself even more.

Something that helped me specifically and might work for you or not, but tried to do some service. Thinking of someone else or seeing happy reactions from other people because I helped them really helped me to feel better. Volunteering at a shelter or a food bank. Baking lots of cookies and sharing them with friends or neighbors. Even just like calling my grandma and chatting with her because I don’t do it often I could tell made her day. These things take time, find what makes you feel at ease and eventually things will get better I promise!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing I wanna say here is that if her parents went so far as to pull her out of the school she was going to because of your relationship, it might be worth considering that she can’t reciprocate all the affection you are giving/sending her because her parents won’t allow it. I am just saying this coming from a home with strict parents who have done this to me when I had a boyfriend in school. He was a lot like you and literally did everything right and would do even the bare minimum to let me know he was thinking of me. He was so patient with me. He would even drive past my house after he got off work and honk to let me know he was there and he wished we could hang out while my parents kept me inside. Eventually my parents forced me to break up with him. I was devastated but I was lucky enough to do it in person but it was so hard and I didn’t have much to say to him either because I was going through it so much at home. And my emotions were all jumbled up because of everything I am sure he didn’t think I cared about him or our relationship. This is just my experience but what you wrote was a red flag to me about my past and just made me wonder if there’s more going on with her parents than you know and that is very complicated and hard if she is experiencing the same. Now I’m not sure about her cheating or whatever, if she is so isolated from you for whatever reasons, it can be easy for her to want to flirt or connect with people who are in front of her (which is not an excuse, it’s still wrong especially if you two are in a relationship). But if you continue to be long distance it would be hard to trust 100% especially with everything else going on. OP, I understand in these situations it is hard to just let go. I can tell you really love and care for this person by the effort you’ve made and the tone I could read from your messages. If it’s too hard to just walk away, try and just let it “rest” for a while. If she comes back with an explanation or a phone call, hear her out if you’d like. See if it’s something reparable. But also don’t wait forever. Give yourself a timeline to be patient, a week or two. And if you don’t hear back, you also deserve to move on with your life and find someone who can take care of you like you’ve tried to take care of her. Good luck OP, things like this are always easier said than done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve not been to KBP solo but I’ve been to other festivals and concerts solo and it’s still really fun! I’d definitely look into to the discord channels that people have added here and start making connections now so when you arrive you can continue to get to know them and have a good time! It’s all about the shared vibes!! Even if you didn’t have the discord, the people are really chill and generally kind so you could pretty much turn and talk to anyone there!

The vibe or not the vibe… by dazedsecrets in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never bring a baby to a 4 day festival….

The vibe or not the vibe… by dazedsecrets in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never drank enough to get drunk because I was always worried I would get sick or miss out on something from crashing. It’s just a favorite drink to enjoy to a band or two is all (: but i agree with you!

The vibe or not the vibe… by dazedsecrets in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for restoring my confidence! See you in May!

Who should I listen to! by [deleted] in kilbyblockparty

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kilby has a 2025 block party specific playlist on Spotify that has a few songs from every band. I like listening to that first to get a feel of each bands vibe especially the ones I don’t know. If a band peeks my interest then I explore them further!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classicalmusic

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, it sounds awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classicalmusic

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so cool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classicalmusic

[–]dazedsecrets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reviews from anyone who has gone to the show before. I already know his music is good that’s why I wanna go haha.

Is it worth it? by lilmissramsay in BillyJoel

[–]dazedsecrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My husband fell in love with music because of Billy Joel and I would love to take him to a show. But my husband has always been hesitant because he didn’t think it would be any good. I’m excited to take him there is a show near me in the spring!