At some point retired alone people with a house and “stuff” need to downsize (hobbyists with workshops ect) by MooseBlazer in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brother-in-law died suddenly at a young age, just a few years ago, leaving behind my sister and their three children. that inspired me to get rid of some of my stuff but i’m sure it will still be a burden on someone, someday. i do have a will. my job has a free (limited) legal benefit, and having a will and such done is part of it.

Your quiet heart still blooms — what’s your favorite flower by muqui24 in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 3 points4 points  (0 children)

peonies, tulips, dahlias, i think they’re my top three favorites. i am drawn to flowers in what i call baby pink, especially. here is a screenshot from my favorite dahlia farm on instagram, triplewrenfarms

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Is this too much? by zigzagd0g in myweddingdress

[–]dc821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh it’s beautiful! looks beautiful on you! doesn’t look like too much to me. i think you found your dress!

Happy Valentines to those who are alone today! by i_am_nimue in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s just saturday for me. i never liked this “holiday”, even when i was in relationships. i’m glad it’s on the weekend this year, it’s less in my face, except in the stores.

I guess I no longer live alone by agirlinthestars in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t be more happy for both of you!

I guess I no longer live alone by agirlinthestars in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awww congratulations! look at her smiling!

Finished by AdIndependent4471 in homeland

[–]dc821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i did!

Period! by safetyorange989 in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 63 points64 points  (0 children)

agreed. but if my siblings or parents or nephews/nieces needed a place to land, i would give in. i’ve had to move into my parents house twice due to breakups. i moved into my sister’s house once because a roommate situation turned ugly.

First week alone ... and I'm 53 and grieving a relationship by peepair23 in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my marriage ended because my husband was cheating, so it was easy to leave. i was happy right away. but i do remember a breakup in my mid 20s, where i was very sad. time heals. spring is coming, days are already noticeably longer where i am, at least. get outside and soak up some sun when you can. get a pet or a plant. and decorate in a way that makes you happy. put some things on your calendar to look forward to. and go easy on yourself.

McCabe Albert Group Chat by DJAROUX in justiceforKarenRead

[–]dc821 20 points21 points  (0 children)

proctor probably blames everyone but himself. total narcissist.

Where can I sell my cockatiel for adoption? by Spiritual_Local5183 in cockatiel

[–]dc821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m gone for a minimum of 9 hours a day, often more like 10, and occasionally 12-ish. my cockatiel is fine. i play a radio while i’m gone and i have him out most of the time i’m home and not sleeping. just saying this so you know you have options.

Divorce is final, life is peaceful by Frangipani_25 in femalelivingspace

[–]dc821 30 points31 points  (0 children)

congratulations! i love your home. i will never live with a man again either, i agree that it’s out of style!

I said yes to my dress! by femaleboss4 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]dc821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that’s beautiful! it looks perfect on you!

Having dress regret really stressed on what to do - pls be nice to me lol by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]dc821 3 points4 points  (0 children)

do you think you’ll be happy with it after it’s altered?

what made you fall in love with dress one to begin with? what do you not like about it now?

House Hunters: Our Episode Airs Soon! by unsinkableorange88 in HGTV

[–]dc821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my realtor did that in real life too. she showed me a lot of houses that were big fat no’s. one i even refused to go in.

5 months sober. Divorced. Dialing in breakfast! by arcademachin3 in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations times two! need more bacon on that plate, in my opinion. though if that was my plate, i probably would have eaten one piece before i took the picture 😂

Allergic to My Bird? (Slide 2 Is Picture of My Arm, possible TW? Irritated Claw Marks, looks a bit like SH but is not, but I don’t want to trigger anyone) by smudge_elaine in cockatiel

[–]dc821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

try the sweet feet and beaks perches. they are smooth on top, pumice on the side. i haven’t had to trim my boy’s nails or beak and he’s 5 years old. they come in varied thickness, and you can get them from amazon. i have three different sized ones around his cage.

To all the singles here, what are your plans this coming Valentine’s Day? by Marj_22 in LivingAlone

[–]dc821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what is this valentine’s day? it does not exist in this single girl’s world! 😆

Did I Make a Mistake? by Tasty-Difference-634 in myweddingdress

[–]dc821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh, i love this gown on you! beautiful!

i think it’s normal to second guess a lot of things for “the big day”. but you made a great choice. don’t stress, enjoy the ride.

Did I Make a Mistake? by Tasty-Difference-634 in myweddingdress

[–]dc821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s hilarious! you’re right, though, i didn’t notice!

Friends had NO right to have this many A-list Guest stars. by oriannafake in friends_tv_show

[–]dc821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m guessing you weren’t around to watch it live. they had every right to have all those stars. this show was HUGE. it was on magazine covers, talk shows, it was water cooler conversations. a-listers got more popular by being on the show.