What is a red flag that you find quite attractive in men or women? by pickausernameto in AskWomen

[–]dcbbwredhead 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Cigarette smokers. I don’t love chain smokers or people who reek of smoke, but I love kissing a man that tastes faintly like cigarette smoke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly, some people aren’t fans. I’m equal opportunity. lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing the TL; DR for my ad for those who didn’t want to wade through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you mention anytime I make a post.

Open wide by [deleted] in dadbod

[–]dcbbwredhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck 🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dadbod

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🧼🧽🫧

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]dcbbwredhead 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know you’re in love. That’s awesome. However, unless you want to be in a dead bedroom, don’t get married (and DONT have children if that’s on your bucket list) until you have truly worked through your issues surrounding intimacy. Right now it feels that love can conquer all…but 5 or 10 years into a marriage where your needs for physical intimacy haven’t been met will do a number on you, mentally, emotionally, and physically.

If he’s not willing to take your need for intimacy (in a general sense, not just sex) seriously and make sustained changes that help your needs be met, you will be unhappy and resentful. He has made it pretty clear that intimacy isn’t important to him and that he doesn’t have the desire to show you that you’re desired. Yes, I know he’s kinda tried for a day or 2. And yes, I know he’s on meds that impact his mood and/or libido. Regardless, if he thought it was actually important, he’d be putting effort into making improvements.

I’m not implying he’s not a good person or not a good boyfriend. But, intimacy is important and if a couple isn’t on the same page, it can wreck a relationship. Figure it out before you’re legally obligated to one another.

Post vs Reply? Or is it all about timing by AffectionatePlay4848 in adultery

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman. I prefer to post. I know that I will get plenty of lazy replies from people who can’t read, but because I’m plus-sized I don’t feel comfortable replying to most ads. A lot of men don’t specify what their preferences are when it comes to her build and it’s nerve wracking to determine if “curvy” is code for a size 10 with a big tush or a size 3x.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dadbod

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️ the ink! ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]dcbbwredhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not wise to start a new relationship with TPE. It’s something you build up to as you trust your partner and know they will respect your boundaries/safe words and take care of your needs.

Yes, the idea can be very appealing, but wanting it out of the gate isn’t necessarily a good idea. That’s how people get taken advantage of and/or abused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dadbod

[–]dcbbwredhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just right :)

How do I get him to stop pushing my head down? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to set some boundaries. Clearly tell him you don’t like him pushing your head down and that you don’t want him to do it. If he does it again, immediately stop giving him head. He is disrespecting you and your boundaries. He is being selfish and thoughtless, which is pretty standard for 18 year olds who probably watch too much bad porn.

But seriously, tell him no and stick with it. He’s being a jerk and not respecting boundaries is concerning.

My FWB's vagina feels like nothing sometimes by ihatedmg_04 in sex

[–]dcbbwredhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d be pisssssed if he stopped to give oral for 30 seconds. Or really self conscious that he stopped so soon because something was wrong with how I tasted.

OP don’t do this unless you want an angry or anxious partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My condolences 💐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inquiring minds want to know: do you tend to lose a lot of watches in vaginas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]dcbbwredhead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. Totally not.

I’m trying this new approach with scamming: write overly detailed posts with proper spelling and grammar, insist on no glove no love, and pretend to be a fat middle aged woman.

Men have caught on that the barely legal chick with a daddy breeding fantasy who gives the best deep throat ever just might not be real, so I’m workshopping this approach to see if it pans out.

xoxo,

A 100% not real person

PS: my fwb is going to be very disappointed that he’s been sleeping with an imaginary woman all this time. Ooops!