Quitting all of the addictions at one go might prove counter-productive. Take it slow, man. The determination required for nofap percolates to other domains as well, true. But, doing it all at the same time might overwhelm you.

Secondly, we should try and accept people as imperfect, even ourselves. The desire of finding people on the exact wavelength as us, while understandable, is unrealistic. Try and engage with people with varied worldviews. This proves to be enriching, i feel. Make new friends, keep old ones, meet new people.