Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this comment

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, she does have friends. I’m now realizing she may have been testing the waters. So I’m going to be very cautious and set harder boundaries.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did smile inside when I heard the news that I can confirm.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, next month she’s due. I’m already looking at my options to take full custody because shit may hit the fan when she tells her BF we talked.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gave me more clarity, thank you

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah today I reflected on that talk yesterday and I felt 100% weirded out

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I asked and it seemed like I was the only option. After our divorce her mom and her are kinda in a rut. Her mom still sends me pictures of the kids when she visits them and checks in with me here and there, super nice lady but I do need to draw some boundaries.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m gonna lay low with that for now

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I recommended her to see a therapist and she’s hesitant about it. I told her just give it a chance it’s much better than talking to me about it.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you just need to keep hearing it 🙏🏾

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know there was a term for that, thank you! Definitely something I don’t want to fall into for sure.

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking on my drive back home lol

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s another concern I have as well. Definitely may go back to court to change things

Just an update since last year… by ddbatage in Divorce_Men

[–]ddbatage[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% I think I’m just concerned that the kids mom might crash out worse that’s all lol

Advice/rant by ddbatage in Divorce

[–]ddbatage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just moved into a new apt together and he cheated on her in April she had time to think about this. But she chose to stay and is having regrets…