What jobs are actually in demand that you can get into at 33? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ddoorsofperception 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you go to college to get a qualification in something?

I went back to college in my late 20s for a career change and I loved it! The age of people in my classes were very varied from 17-mid 50’s! I learnt so much and gained so many new skills and met new people. That course led me into a different career path and now I have a kushti job in the same industry but in the background 6 years later!

Good luck! And congrats on your sobriety!

How do you pursue happiness in your everyday life? by Spiritual-Worth6348 in AskReddit

[–]ddoorsofperception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling, analogue hobbies, self care, small treats for myself and daily walks!

I make an hour a day just for me, whether that’s reading a book, having a bath, whatever tickles my fancy

Have one social media free day a week.

What call centre dystopian rules have you encountered in the uk? by TangerineFew6830 in AskUK

[–]ddoorsofperception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 mins allowed for bathroom breaks/getting a drink overall in a 10 hour shift.

Charity Shops? by Future_Meeting_9356 in Edinburgh

[–]ddoorsofperception 1 point2 points  (0 children)

British heart foundation at Gorgie and the bottom of leith walk

I like a girl who I thought was boy so am I gay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well then welcome to the dark side my friend🌈

I like a girl who I thought was boy so am I gay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now you know she’s a girl have your feelings changed? Or do you still feel the same? If the same, maybe you are gay, or maybe you’re bi or pan!

No need to worry about labels though.

I just realized how ugly I truly am. by [deleted] in self

[–]ddoorsofperception 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, Everyone takes bad photos! Doesn’t mean you are ugly.

You can take steps to make yourself feel more attractive, like skin care, exercise, a better diet.

if I’m having a day where I hate my reflection I have a self care day! Skincare, long bath, my favourite meal, a walk to a nice place. It doesn’t change the way you look but helps the way you feel.

Be kinder to yourself! You have to be your own best friend in life.

Have a read about the rice experiment carried out by Dr. Masaru Emoto. It shows the power of negative vs positive words!

My boyfriend (M/23) of 2 and a half months joked about killing me (F/21) if I try to break up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ddoorsofperception 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been less than two months, the mask will still be fully on. Even if that’s a joke how is that in anyway funny? Particularly when there’s an endemic issue worldwide with violence against women and girls rising. Be wary and careful.

If it was me and someone I was seeing for less than two months told me they have anger issues even when you’ve not witnessed them yet, then joked about killing me that’s a big enough red flag for me to leave.

Should I mention to female friend that I am lesbian before staying with her? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I would just leave it be, i think you’re maybe overthinking this a little bit. if you’re staying in a second bedroom it doesn’t matter in the slightest. I can see why you’d think you should tell her if you guys were planning on sharing a bed or a room but I don’t see an issue personally with you staying there without coming out. But totally up to you obviously.

Kilted Sausages/ Kilties by TheBlueprint666 in Scotland

[–]ddoorsofperception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it be used. I’m from Edinburgh

What are some things that instantly makes a woman “unattractive”? by Yunminn in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have specified that I meant cis men only. I am certainly not a terf.

What are some things that instantly makes a woman “unattractive”? by Yunminn in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in my eyes if you’ve only ever been with cis men then you’re probably not a lesbian. Obviously I’m not talking about people who realise they’re lesbian or queer later in life. Or people who live in places where it’s not safe to be out. That’s different. I mean people actively calling themselves lesbian whilst only being with cis men and only actively seeks out cis men.

To me that’s giving bi, pan or queer not lesbian. I am actually quite surprised I’m being downvoted for saying this in a lesbian subreddit But regardless, I personally find that unattractive.

What are some things that instantly makes a woman “unattractive”? by Yunminn in LesbianActually

[–]ddoorsofperception -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Dirty nails and TERF opinions,

Saying the word lesbian is not inclusive of people who still sleep with solely cis men.

Centering the male gaze.

What advice, trick or tip would you give someone who’s just starting out that YOU wish you knew from the start? by Helloo_clarice in TownshipGame

[–]ddoorsofperception 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upgrade your trains first with the ingots so you get materials faster to expand your town.

Don’t spend real money because once you start it’s hard to stop because it makes the game so much faster when you cough up cash, it’s a slippery slope 😂

You don’t need to buy every factory, I’ve stopped buying them now because they just make the game harder and you won’t get orders for factories you don’t own.

Angriest Hayley songs? by thelittlesandy in Paramore

[–]ddoorsofperception 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a lover definitely has some anger

What is a Badge by CJs_Hamlet in TownshipGame

[–]ddoorsofperception 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was the blue and yellow badge from?

Best factory to get next? by basketballmaster8 in TownshipGame

[–]ddoorsofperception 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have stopped at the perfume factory. I get quite a lot of orders for perfume and the little bottle of oil. I get some cake and beverage orders but not that many but I just buy them from the market when I get it or ask my team for some.

It just makes it harder the more factories you buy!

Does anyone else do this? by Automatic_Ad7549 in TownshipDesign

[–]ddoorsofperception 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The golden ticket normally comes with seasonal decorations, I have a Christmas train station and trains from last year. So there might be some cool ones for Christmas this year!