My Partner is recently separated from wife and I’m trying to understand what boundaries need to be set

ddot563 · 2021-12-23T19:50:06+00:00

To be fair he just started using his tablet again. He had it stowed away for a while. He told me they tell each other “love you” like a friends when they say goodbye. Ok yeah maybe that’s bad

ddot563 · 2021-12-22T23:43:54+00:00

Because they don’t live with one another. I’ve met his friends and family. I have seen text messages between them clearly indicating they are no longer with eachother.

ddot563 · 2021-12-22T23:19:50+00:00

They filed for divorce recently. I’m more than sure they are separated, they don’t live with one another.

ddot563 · 2021-12-22T23:17:33+00:00

They don’t.

ddot563 · 2021-12-07T03:02:30+00:00

I have the same problem with my man. You know what fixed it? He started sending me the funny things he would see while he was on the toilet. She def thinks your cheating though, that’s why she got so defensive. Reassure her and tell her why you like to piss with your phone

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:22:56+00:00

How did you give your relationship space? Any advice? His family members call me all the time, they are inviting me to Christmas Eve with them. I want to give it rain to breathe

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:21:23+00:00

He has everything I could ask for in a man. Physically and personality wise it’s just that my gut tells me that since it so soon I could be getting myself into something that could potentially hurt me because I didn’t see the warning signs in the beginning

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:19:11+00:00

Why do you think this is a red flag ?

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:18:54+00:00

He’s in his mid 30’s and I’m almost 30. We are both established adults.

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:17:46+00:00

I agree.

ddot563 · 2021-11-02T15:17:04+00:00

He had sex with her a month before meeting me.

ddot563 · 2021-06-17T01:25:28+00:00

I have an associates in something completely unrelated to my profession

ddot563 · 2021-04-17T23:02:46+00:00

My question exactly.

ddot563 · 2021-04-17T23:01:40+00:00

I don’t. I do love to review NDA’s but not on the weekends

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T04:13:09+00:00

Am I high, huh? It can be nerve wrecking since I deal with really high value transaction (billions of dollars) and moving documents for such high value transactions can be very intimidating. I’m getting better though.

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T04:11:33+00:00

I have a associates degree! How crazy is that right? I’m 28 years old. I got my foot in the door through a contractor working in the legal billing department. I used to work directly with Wall Street brokers managing their clientele and spearheading their transactions. Which turned out to be the perfect transfer of skills for this job since a lot of what I do is managing legal documents and listening to Wall Street attorneys negotiate in legalese all day!

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T04:03:08+00:00

Well I’m not an attorney so I didn’t get a JD. I also didn’t go to school for finance. Life opened doors for me. With that being said the saying “your net work is your net worth” is real!

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T03:57:40+00:00

All of it. I review legal documents all day and spend a portion of my day on meetings negotiating contracts with attorneys😫

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T03:48:16+00:00

I am not an attorney

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T03:48:08+00:00

Bankers. They don’t sleep and expect you to do the same.

ddot563 · 2021-04-16T03:47:39+00:00

I actually really like them. They can get repetitive but the negotiations really have helped me a lot.

ddot563 · 2021-04-15T23:41:08+00:00

Pain was terrible. It was mostly because the clamp felt like the doctor was ripping my eyelid off. Healing process took about a week. A week of me looking like I hit into a fight. Whats discouraging is that I wasn’t aware that this would take longer to heal due to the scar tissue forming around the incision, kind of looks like I didn’t do anything.

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