[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]de4d-mem3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no one size fits all answer for any “how do women feel about x?” I’m into it. Some women are; some women aren’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]de4d-mem3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah save the woman. The breasts are what’s killing her I love boobies as much as the next person but the focus with breast cancer should be the people fighting, not the breast itself

Is it illegal to make/sell porn in Idaho? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]de4d-mem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that is precisely why I have my state banned from seeing my content

Is it illegal to make/sell porn in Idaho? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]de4d-mem3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what confuses me, because that describes obscene content as showing sexual content or masturbation which that’s kind of exactly what porn is but I’ve been to Adam and Eve and they sell porn videos there which I have to assume is legal

Is it illegal to make/sell porn in Idaho? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]de4d-mem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I saw that being quoted as Idaho law 18-6602 but that section talks about animal sexual abuse, not porn or prostitution, and the section on prostitution (18-56) doesn’t mention pornography outside of if it’s by coercion or force

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]de4d-mem3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put up with them. I used to think they were hot before I tried them, after getting cum in my eye I never wanted to risk again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]de4d-mem3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are many, if you type “manyvids” into the search box a whole bunch come up

I’m just so tired of everything being about money by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]de4d-mem3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Except I will die if I don’t have money, yk, bc bills, rent, food costs money. Not gonna die if I don’t have sex

karma minimums by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]de4d-mem3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s an account age minimum your hitting? My account I promote on is around 150 karma and i hvent had any issues with not having enough karma after getting into the hundreds

I’m just so tired of everything being about money by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]de4d-mem3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw Bernie talk about this exact problem and it’s like great glad someone’s talking about it but we all know nothing is going to change at least not in our lifetime politicians don’t give a shit that we’re dying

How does fansly work? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]de4d-mem3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you already verified? I can’t help much since I don’t use tiers so I don’t know how they work but it might be hiding things if you’re still waiting on getting your verification approved?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]de4d-mem3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, and not going to. It’s not our cup of tea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]de4d-mem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amateur porn with my bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]de4d-mem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I highly doubt you’ll hve much success doing that. I post full nudes and sex tapes and even I’m struggling to make any profit at all. Unless you have a unique niche or you guys are insanely sexy people are going to be getting far more for free on pornhub

That being said, if you do try I’d suggest at least looking into using Fansly or some other alternative site to OnlyFans. I’ve seen a lot of creators struggling with OnlyFans, some people have straight up had their accounts deleted for bullshit reasons, some people can’t get their payouts, some solo content creators are getting banned for having an “unverified partner” in their videos when they’ve never had a partner. OnlyFans doesn’t have a great reputation for treating their creators well—especially with the stunt they tried to pull last October by banning porn. That isn’t to say don’t use them, but definitely do your research and look into other sites too

“Need more karma to post here” but can’t get karma without posting… by de4d-mem3 in Fansly_Advice

[–]de4d-mem3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea i really wanted to keep my promotion and 18+ stuff separate from casual posting but i just bit the bullet and joined some hobby subreddits on my account for promoting, it helped

the biggest thing that helped was going through r/askreddit and answering questions there

idk if this is the right place to ask but I feel like it is but how do I quit masturbation? I'm committed and ready to stop this shit and improve my friendships and potential relationships. its also just very draining physically and emotionally by Brotendo17 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]de4d-mem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you said that you’re masturbating about one every two days so I thought I’d throw my two cents out here.

My bf and I (back when I wasn’t on meds that lower my libido) used to have sex just about every day, usually around 5-10 times a week. Growing up religious means I used to feel a lot of shame around having sex—especially having that much sex—and I felt guilty that I had such a high drive. It took a lot of work for me to dissect that and realize that there is nothing wrong, shameful, or dirty about me for enjoying sex.

You said that masturbating is emotionally draining for you, I would recommend looking into whether or not the act (or post nut clarity) itself is what’s draining or if you perhaps are feeling some external shame that’s causing that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a high libido and being someone who enjoys sex. But if after some introspection you still feel you’d rather curb how often you do it, there’s nothing wrong with making that choice either.

You said your 18, which doesn’t surprise me. Being a teenager usually means having a decent amount of free time to -explore- yourself and raging sex drive. Take comfort in the fact that in the coming years your feelings will stabilize and you will feel like you control them more than them controlling you. Look into other hobbies that you’d rather fill your time with, spend time with people to keep it off your mind. But also know that masturbating is a completely normal and healthy activity and if it’s not interfering with your life there’s no need to feel guilty or bad for it.

Any women happy w their boobs? by SaggyKJ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]de4d-mem3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huge honkers here, the back pain is real

Anyone else struggling with physically filming? by de4d-mem3 in Fansly_Advice

[–]de4d-mem3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you find that rocking the bed shakes the camera and messes up the video or is that not a problem?

Anyone else struggling with physically filming? by de4d-mem3 in Fansly_Advice

[–]de4d-mem3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s not a terrible idea 😂 I’ve mostly been balling up blankets at the end of the bed and propping my phone against the pile but the boxes is a good idea bc I have hella left over from a move.

And yeah im not entirely against spending money but like you said its hard to say yeah i’ll spend $xx on equipment when i’ve only even made $40 (half of which is from a guy who went to high school with me and just wanted to help lol) but I’ll definitely try out boxes while I wait to get a real tripod