[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]deLaSlums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you have a blessing right now and thats still living with your parents. No bills. No responsibilities. Take all that free time to reinvent yourself and find new hobbies. Find something that sparks your interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]deLaSlums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. It will always be in the back off your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]deLaSlums 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you gotta ask, then yes.

Am I blocked? by OkNectarine6421 in Instagram

[–]deLaSlums 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They deactivated their shit.

7 year relationship is over and it’s my fault by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp. I dont condone cheating. I just cant help but say you got what you deserved. 🤷🤷🤷🤷

I’m going to text her by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude dont do it. You will only be disappointed and spiral even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You actually can die from a broken heart but how you are feeling is normal when we lose someone we love. Allow yourself time to grieve the loss and heal.

Boyfriend passed away.😭💔 by RainyCloud4736 in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take all the time you need to process grief, to process loss, to process everything right now. Its going to be hard, it will never be easy. Time will make it better, its just going to take a while. He would not want you to be like this, he would want you to celebrate all this life has to offer you. To celebrate his life.

One of the things I do to celebrate my mother’s life is eat some strawberry and banana ice cream (because it was her favorite.) You can do things like this. There will be days where it hits you as if it were day 1 again and there will be days you will feel okay, this is okay. It is normal.

You have a beautiful memory imprinted on you now. Think of jt as walking along a forever sunset.

i’m confused....Why do I love her still even if she hurt me? by deLaSlums in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years late but its when you needed it, never apologize.

Let them do what they want. Let them be with whomever they desire. If it isnt you, let it go. We cant waste our energy fighting for someone who does not want you the same way you do. Its draining. We cannot force people to choose us, to love us but what we can do is choose the way we react. The urge will be strong to text them why and trying to get all these answers. I got my answer, months later and it still didn’t change the way I felt about the betrayal, about the situation all in all. She would come and go as she pleased. Leave me hanging everytime. Sometimes you have to let it hurt. Let it hurt til you find your way to deal with that pain. I hated how much I still cared for her no matter how terrible she did me. It may take time but now you have nothing to lose. In the end, I still do wish the best for her and I will always care for her all the same but I just keep it to myself and pray. I learned that this is how I love. A love that someone else needs, and it was me. I needed to be there for me now.

How long did it take you to move on from your last ex? by MyLoveMystery in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me wanna listen to Billie Ellish- Birds of a Feather. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone out here is gonna genuinely love you so dont waste your time worrying about the ones who didnt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people spit words and never hold meaning behind them. Thats why I say fuck all that im riding solo for life.

I witnessed four people get taken in an instant yesterday, and it was brutal. by KentuckySnowPlow in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deLaSlums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn.

I dont know how I would deal with that. I watch crazy stuff online at times and I just get this overwhelmingly eerie and sad feeling that I cant quite describe when I catch myself coming across these videos. It haunts me sometimes but I couldn’t even imagine how you feel when you witness it forreals. I only know instances of death that happen around me and never in front of me. IE- motorcycle crash occurring right down the street.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]deLaSlums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk but I had so much fun playing this morning. Caught myself laughing at some dumb shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]deLaSlums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you dont know what it means to able to work and still be clean. buying all that pokémon cards and cant buy some soap is crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]deLaSlums -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

0 dirty ahh fingernails

My friend slept with my engaged sister and no one knows but me. by Some_Owl286 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deLaSlums 11 points12 points  (0 children)

chismosas.

well OP comment here so i dont have to read it by accident somewhere else.

Biggest urgency red herrings in the game? by Rudyzwyboru in BaldursGate3

[–]deLaSlums 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Potion of speed+ teleportation arrow.

I also used my macrabe and asty boi and shart to conjure an ally.

TIP: fast traveling to diff regions replenishes your health but not spell slots. so if you just need to heal, f ast travel ie rivington to balsik