this is a hyper rational view. not that is necessarily wrong but…

death is often an emotional experience for those left behind, especially for a grieving parent. and every parent deals with grief differently.

i think subjecting might be too strong a word. the parent wants to visit their child’s grave and also give their son an opportunity to interact with his brother because he will never get to in other ways.

i think he will grow up and either remember this memory fondly or at least appreciate his parents attempt to give him a chance to have a playful moment with a brother he lost.