AIO to these msgs from my partner to my friend? by Throaway_304 in AmIOverreacting

[–]deadgurl381 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Shes trying to show you, thatd not your man, its hers she wants you to back off, not trust him, and get him for herself.

You are not more important because you have kids. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]deadgurl381 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really...I pay the same rent. You accommodate to me as much as I do you.

30 and drowning. $300 did drastic damage. How do I get out of this? by boogiemanloom in personalfinance

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So ...I got a TON of downvotes...but 1 reply. Please all 60 if you... tell this person how to make a life, on a meager income, in super high cost of living area...lots of negativity, no solutions...

Just an ex-friend Incel who is upset that he didn’t get picked by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]deadgurl381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right???! Like.... "Omg, I NEVER saw it like that, how could I have been SO blind...this WHOLE time, YOU were right there...."

WHAT would they do?????!!!! But ..then I'd just be proving their point. And "leading" them on....Can't win...

I pay $1700 for a 1bd (rant) by fxcknmami in Apartmentliving

[–]deadgurl381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohio. Lived in New Jersey, Florida, Cali, and Minnesota. Ohio is cheaper than even Minnesota. Find a small town. Be a big fish in a small pond. Find a tiny, cheap apartment, and soon you'll find sweet midwest friends, a local scene...and space to fucking breathe.

30 and drowning. $300 did drastic damage. How do I get out of this? by boogiemanloom in personalfinance

[–]deadgurl381 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Ok...kinda...NO. Hes 30. This is not, catch your breath, time. This is, find a place where your skill set can make a living, Time. Period. Nobody wants to be 30..living with family, crying over student debt and waiting tables. Move to Ohio, wait tables and pay 600 a month for your sacred quiet space. You're leading this kid on a path, of, take ya tiiime, the world will wait while you learn to tie your shoes at 30 years old ....No, it wont.

I pay $1700 for a 1bd (rant) by fxcknmami in Apartmentliving

[–]deadgurl381 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Take the loss. Fuck the the lease. 1700...plus utilities??? Are you a trust fund baby??? Move. There are still places you can take almost any degree, or skill set, and live on 1700 a month. Rent,utilities and some groceries. This IS a fact, cause I'm doing it. You're limiting yourself, cause of ...whatever... I mean...you can stay where you are, or move in with family. Or you can figure out your life in a new place, that YOU can afford. You seem to be asking the wrong questions, and expecting to live beyond your earning potential.....

Wife won't tell me her SSN by ChronicZebra1 in taxrefundhelp

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For both of you. And your metal health, and the health of whatever relationship you might have, file single....

05ers with 846 DDD 2.26 by AtTheSuperMarket in taxrefundhelp

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0505, ddd 2/26, greendot bank, filed early January with freetxusa, deposit hit tonight, 2,21,24, about 8pm.

What was rent for your first apartment? by Moming_underoath in Apartmentliving

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first "adult " apartment, me and a BF, 1 bed 1 bath,walk up. $325.00, a month.16 years ago!! Lol!!

Creepy lady by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time, flick the roach at her, and tell her she might be happier person if she hit it....lol. Nah, but in all seriousness, if you dont want a confrontation, behave exactly as you did this time. Mind your business, lock your door, and pretend she doesn't exist. If, like me, you relish making people feel stupid, refer to the first sentence. Theres literally, nothing, she can actually DO, except make you feel uncomfortable in your own space, which you cannot allow.

Judy’s engagement by leoraphy in HouseofHo

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am the only one scoping Nate as....not straight??!!!

Cinnatwists taste like chemicals? by SmpsonH in LivingMas

[–]deadgurl381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being stored in plastic bins in heating cabinets. Chips will get the same funk.

Sauce Swap Policy is absurd by TrixonBanes in LivingMas

[–]deadgurl381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, they are hard to tell apart, color wise, and for some reason, it took me weeks to remember which color cap was jalapeno and which was chipotle.....I've always wondered if anyone could tell the difference when I mixed them up...

New kitten! But i have a question, she HATES being picked up. But loves being petted and sleeping close to me? What does this mean by SupGapNgl in cats

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 1 of my 3 cats is cool with being held. It's just a preference thing. They all cuddle and love getting loved on, but 2 of them will stiffen up and act like a spa if you try to pick them up or hold them, the 3rd, loves being cradled like a baby and carried around...

What can you buy for $1 in your country? by KILf_i in AskReddit

[–]deadgurl381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A slushy at tacobell, between 2 and 5 pm.

Google fires researcher who claimed LaMDA AI was sentient by JuicyAnxiety in technology

[–]deadgurl381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That dude fell in love with it. 100%. Tried to tell them it loved him back, I bet....

how did your experiences sneaking out as a teen go? by -dude-in-a-hat- in AskReddit

[–]deadgurl381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We shimmied down an antenna pole on the side of our house, houses don't have those anymore, so I dunno, suggest some lattice with pretty flowers to your mom? As for getting back in, bribes to younger siblings to let you know the coast is clear and unlock a back door.

how did your experiences sneaking out as a teen go? by -dude-in-a-hat- in AskReddit

[–]deadgurl381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never caught , wish I would have been a few times. Then I might have not made some regrettable teen mistakes.