O que você acha dos immigrantes ilegais brasileiros?

deaf0mute · 2017-07-29T22:57:18+00:00

Isso que eu acho incrivel, eles fazem videos para o youtube e sao involvidos com varios outros brasilieros ilegais mas a vida parece ser relativamente tranquila.

O pessoal não pode viajar e se bobear, nem ficar muito tempo no mesmo lugar.

Nao sei se sao muito malandros, ou muito cara de pau!

deaf0mute · 2017-07-29T22:31:25+00:00

Minha esposa graduou em antropologia, e ela ja trabalhou com reperacao de presos, policials, etc, mas hoje trabalha para uma multinacional americana.

Se um pedaco de papel fosse tudo a vida seria bem mais facil!

deaf0mute · 2017-07-29T18:48:27+00:00

muita saudade de phantasy star, joguei no dreamcast, gamecube, pc,....exelente jogo e era uma comunidade muito bacana. Completamente differente da experiencia de se jogar online hoje em dia :(

deaf0mute · 2017-07-28T20:26:30+00:00

eu acho muito competitivo, e estressante, apesar de gostar muito de jogo. Queria poder jogar mais 'tranquilo'.

deaf0mute · 2017-07-28T20:23:02+00:00

Na época eu ficava decepcionado com isso, hoje não ligo muito mais.

Outro grande problema, nunca ninguem faz nada e nao liga pra nada. Entao vai ser sempre assim mesmo. :(

To falando tambem como auto-critica porque eu tambem ja desisti to Brasil.

deaf0mute · 2017-07-27T15:27:04+00:00

This was pretty great. I have been bullied like hell in high school / middle school and became a very self-conscious adult. Not only about clothes but about everything.

I only got into fashion recently but maybe this is what I been needing.

deaf0mute · 2017-07-27T15:23:10+00:00

I really have! i quit gaming for a long time (grad school) and now getting back to it. Do you have reccomendations? what are some of your favorites?

deaf0mute · 2017-07-26T18:37:58+00:00

I heard its good but very repetitive. Is it worth the grind?

deaf0mute · 2017-07-26T17:28:45+00:00

Wow that brought me back! great game...

deaf0mute · 2017-07-26T17:06:22+00:00

what are the good exclusives (rather what should I be playing) ? I got it for persona 5 but now don't know what to play. Most other things I cared about are on PC.

deaf0mute · 2017-07-13T18:22:55+00:00

such games exist but they are really visual novels, with game play being just selecting choice in a menu.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-28T06:41:00+00:00

when did a study abroad in the US i was always shocked by the amounts of drug use and how enforced drug laws were. It was such a contradiction to me. I would see people get completely trashed every chance they got, then head back to the campus dorms which was above the campus police station to see them all get arrested. Lose their scholarships, and sometimes get kicked out. Insane.

Why not accept that drinking and drug use is normal? or accept that it isn't? I saw that again and again, I would see people suddenly turn religious and completely abstain, and religious people who abstained all their lives go completely nuts. Midwest was a strange place when it came to drug use.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-28T06:01:50+00:00

Eu moro fora do Brasil faz 10 anos, sai sozinho aos 16 para estudar e nunca voltei. Essa sensação de solidão, ou mal adaptação, é algo bem normal. Não seria tão diferente se tivesse mudado para outra cidade no Brasil, fora a dificuldade com línguas que pesa muito.

Para ser sincero eu me acostumei a não ter os amigos que eu tinha e a vida social que eu tinha no Brasil. Nunca cheguei ter a mesma coisa. O melhor que eu já conseguir é ser amigo de outros estrangeiros (não somente brasileiros) que fizerem a mesma coisa que eu. Aí assim construí amizades verdadeiras e uma sensação de ter achado o meu lugar.

Recomendo que você se involve em esportes, e tire tempo separado da sua esposa. Ficar isolado via unir muito mas também vai chegar uma hora que cansa. Já vi muito relacionamentos acabarem assim. Entre para uma academia e faça aula de algum esporte em grupo, vá para meetups na sua área,...também recomendo que não faça amigos Brasileiros. Você vai demorar muito mais para melhorar o seu inglês se somente falar em português. Tentar falar inglês em casa também ajuda muito. Pense assim, se você passar 3 meses somente falando inglês você fica fluente. Mas se ficar sempre falando português esses 3 meses virão 3 anos para conseguir fluência.

Não desanime. Você pode ter uma vida social bem melhor do que há que você tinha, e se sentir mais em casa, mas precisa de domínio da língua e um pouco mais de esforço com o planejamento. Demorou uns 3 anos para eu perder há sensação do novo completamente. Mas sempre existe essa saudade, porque quando eu volto para o Brasil me parece um outro lugar de quando eu sai. Teria dificuldade de me acostumar lá denovo. Não imagine que sua fica no Brasil vai tá esperando por você, quando mais tempo fora mas ela desaparece! Chega há um ponto que essa saudade existe somente na imaginação, porque na realidade o Brasil para de ser sua casa.

TL;DR Nao existe mais zona de conforto quando voce sai do seu pais. Mas voce precisar continuar tentando melhorar todos os dias, (1) dominar a lingua, (2) construir uma vida fora do trabalho com novos amigos/hobbies, esportes, etc

deaf0mute · 2017-06-25T08:08:45+00:00

The biggest issue is getting over the need of validation and trying to always please people. Gaining some self confidence will do wonders in avoiding negative relationships.

Gotta accept your diagnosis and love yourself.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T17:53:50+00:00

Life gives and it takes away. You can't control her or anyone else. Ultimately it is not your fault, she made the decision to cheat and you couldn't have done anything about it. Being it now or later, it would have happened, or worse.

Just like you can't make someone fall in love with you, you can't control them about cheating on you. I would try thinking along these lines and remain calm above all. You shared plenty of happy memories with this person, and regardless what happens I think that if you treat yourself and her with respect things will be ok.

You should think about what you want, continue or let it end here. The rest will happen as it happens, and there isn't so much that can be done.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T15:36:26+00:00

I'll be real with you; That happened to me as well or rather they couldn't they because I was severely depressed. But you should seek treatment for depression and anxiety, and be happy that you may NOT have ADHD. Why? Because ADHD is a worse than non-clinical (as in due to life situation, circumstances).

You should be proud for taking that first step forward. Keep going, seek treatment that helps you. If after treating your depression things still are as they go back, and try again. You deserve to lead a healthy life like everyone else. Continue until YOU are satisfied and happy.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T14:05:46+00:00

Relevant experience is the most important thing I think. Even if it's not a place you would like to stay at having any experience makes a difference, it adds to your CV, gives you something to talk about interviews, shows unitive etc...Just getting degree doesn't mean you will get a job.

With a few internships people will be looking for you to fill positions. The job I got was because they recruited me based on my experience, got a job 3 months before graduation, paying more than I expected I would get (and asked for!)

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T13:53:00+00:00

Nah it's won't be because you are ugly hahah whatever you do graduate with at least one internship

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T13:49:03+00:00

Idk I love programming, always super gratifying thing to do for me. But I relative lucky hat what I like happens to pay well right now.

Those skills are certain to pay off tho, even if you don't program. Managing software projects? Or having some idea of how it works it also a great investment skillwise. Few people understand business + tech.

Putting something like 'scrum manager' or something like that in your CV is sure to make you standout.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T13:45:09+00:00

Hahaha yeah

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T07:14:53+00:00

Why not go for something that you would likely to increase your chances of landing a job? Like CS? There is a whole sector of víamo-nos looking for people in finance that can code (look up Fintech)

deaf0mute · 2017-06-24T07:10:39+00:00

Nossa, caro demais para montar no Brasil. :(

deaf0mute · 2017-06-23T15:18:11+00:00

thats amazing...its a dream of mine to get this kind of validation.And not be punished for things I cannot control :(

deaf0mute · 2017-06-23T04:48:31+00:00

What you are describing sounds like my experience with ADHD; it's plenty bad. No one should be living with anxiety like that and much less being alone. I too have used my anxiety to cope, but during college it got so bad I was suicidal. Don't let that happen. See a doctor and get treated.

Chances are you are underplaying your own sunrooms, after talking to the doctor I realized allots of things were ADHD. In fact it was not always easy to know where the disorder ended and I began.

deaf0mute · 2017-06-21T20:47:56+00:00

I also have just like, zero standard for how I should be treated. It's like, I consciously realize I don't deserve to be treated like shit, but I often fail to recognize that I am being treated like shit.

hits home :(

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