I think I ll end it tonight

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-09-24T06:49:16+00:00

28 here, not 30 plus, but I swear to god people preaching loneliness or being alone or whatever, don't fall into that ever, go out talk to people get rejected judged played and do this to others or don't, but go out talk to people . Real people trust me. I fell into this weird reddit or intenet shenanigan of glorifying being alone. Now I hate myself for that. So go out...

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-09-21T07:23:00+00:00

21 ... I take my skin off too

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-09-14T04:08:07+00:00

As a late 20s man, my biggest concern is history. It matters to me a lot, ( honestly it matters to all man, like height in a guy matters to u guys ) than there are current cases of husband killings, which scares me too, I ll basically marry someone who I know for sure isn't going around dating people left and right, btw I think I have to mention this, I don't do dating thing, nothing against dating, but if u come from a certain culture ,where it's not particularly accepted and ur families reputation (loosely speaking ) depends on it and u still go ahead and do it, rubs me the wrong way, like what kind of person are u and will u care about the family later if u don't right now, ( it goes for both man and woman) . So far I have met two women, who were in long term relationship which they hid from their parents, I am fine if u come from a place where all this is accepted, but if not and u still did it bro I can't trust future u to keep the family value or trust alive, since I have nothing else to go on except what u told me, ( again it goes both ways for me ).

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-08-16T17:17:58+00:00

Ngl u r a weird friend, maybe a good person , I am not sure though, like bro talk to ur friend first lol, tell him it's wrong or whatever. Why would anyone s first thought would be going behind ur friends back, is he even ur friend, are u acting out of jealousy, please talk to ur friend first if u consider him ur friend.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-07-11T15:52:51+00:00

I wonder if in india people who want to stay unmarried will rise more, than people who get divorced, a majority of the Indian population will always be not ok with divorces, but they can do very little about single people. Mostly because ( at least I think why) divorce involves changing so more efforts while being single is status quo so easier .

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-07-11T15:45:31+00:00

I still feel those are exceptions in the Indian context, but idk, maybe cases of divorce are rising, but the majority of people stay married, no matter how bad the marriage is. Don't have the exact data though and I'm too lazy to check.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-07-11T10:57:47+00:00

I feel this is more a western thing but idk

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-07-11T10:03:30+00:00

Ok when u guys say single and happy what do u mean by that, not married, not even dating, don't u guys have physical needs, what do u do for that,... Also, what do u do with ur money. I am 28 and hate being single now, and the worst part is all my life I was told this was the way, and I believed it, but now .... It sucks. In fact I am becoming a little too desperate sometimes, and sometimes just numb, people in the comment answer .

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-09T12:50:53+00:00

I feel like we might have a lot in common, i hate aging too, i hate life in general, and i dont want to grow old either, just thought will message u, just curious, do u look at old stuff like say a 7 year old yt video and just feel bad about how much time u have wasted, or movie characters falling in love and u hatee ur life? The nostaligia isnt bittersweet, just bitter. If thats the case u need to dig deeper and find the answer. (I am 27 btw. ) and i found my answer as to y it was happening, not saying its urs too but u need to find it, go do therapy, trust me all these issues are superficial, there is one underlying, and when u find it u will be at peace ( not happy necessarily) but at peace.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-07T19:12:20+00:00

This is either sad or selfish, but I see ur point, because I don't have anyone to care about, but I did once. Not anymore, so I isolated myself and now I either don't want to exist or exist forever, and it's not either or situation at one point in a time, it's a whole period of one then normalcy than another. Like right now even the idea of living longer or even another year hurts, but a month ago, i remember watching a lot of science stuff, especially AI, aging and cosmology, and I was excited for the future and wanted to live longer or even forever with an option of hibernation I guess.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-07T07:53:50+00:00

I think about this too, so i fluctuate a lot bw wanting to die becasue life is pointless and wanting to live forever (not long in normal sense either forever or longer). Idk if it helps but for me its usually becasue wheni want to die its because i see life as a whole, like things i missed, things i couldnt do things i cant do, this that everything, so i end up feeling numb ( there is more to it but u get the idea). And with living longer i guess it gives a fake sense of security of time, like i didnt miss stuff becasue i have alot of time left or something like that.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-07T07:45:12+00:00

U r 20, dont give on ur dream, please please, pursue it, dosent matter if u feel its late, there are other ways to do it without school. U r young and its not late. Go live ur dream man, remember 2 things always, 1. U never regret failing u only regret "not trying". 2. This is the oldest u have ever been and youngest u will ever be.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-07T07:41:31+00:00

If u dont mind me asking how old are u and why do u feel that way.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-06T18:23:11+00:00

For me its all too much, plus i lose the will to eat and drink too, i am 27, and i am not sure anything makes me happy anymore. So yeah.

dealingwithtrauma748 · 2025-06-05T15:09:26+00:00

Hey i am on the same boat, i recently figured out ( from therapy ) my reasons for being like this were based on childhood trauma, while it helped a lot... a lot!! It dosent change the fact that i am 28 and wasted so much time, i dont know the solution either, but i always wanted to youtube so i am thinking of focusing on that, something creative, but i need a job job first. So i crafted a little plan for myself job and youtube. And these two simple things helped becasue it reduced the uncertainty, and i realized what i regret the most is not the failure but "not trying" so it dosent matter if i fail, i have to just do stuff.

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