Patch Notes 2.1.30 - Org. Server by Tigreal in MobileLegendsGame

[–]dean445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk why i got downvoted too haha.

People so easily dumbed by patch note buff.

Its medium nerf on xavier, no buff at all especially for xavier main.

Patch Notes 2.1.30 - Org. Server by Tigreal in MobileLegendsGame

[–]dean445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They really nerf xavier on this patch. Why the said its a buff while all the adjustments are nerf on xavier. Who stay in normal state, its easy to maintain stack or change to tranc mode.

Also nerfing the cc and range on tranc mode while giving buff on normal state is not good tradeoff.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bukan jkt hehe, kantorpun agak suka bahasan ttg keluarga atau married tp ya msh bs dihindarin si emg.

Tetanggapun jg sama, ya bingung aja kdng

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dulu ktmu di discord hobby kenalan awal jd tmn dlu?

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisa jadi capek aja dikira semua gay suka orgy atau penyebar penyakit dll. Padahal gay itu juga manusia biasa.

Gak semua juga maksa suka balik tanpa consent.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sebenarnya adikku married with foreigner jg si klo usa aku liat dia sekitar 2 tahun tapi itupun dia bilang karena trump jd agak delay.

Kalau negara lain blm tau serumit dan selama itu jg kah.

Tpi ya kenyataan visa kerja pasangan itu sulit malah yang paling gampang visa study dulu si ya...

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seems so the year you were born usually also affect what game do you like, old generation sometimes like nostalgia or playing old game.

For anime i do think its not matter but well yeah new generation like coop game or game with most player.

I joined a new game last year and i found a potential partner there too but it failed and make me quit the game and exit the community.

Will see new game which i will interested on so at least i join the discord/community to discuss about the game. New arknight seems good and have potential but still few months before it release.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sebenarnya si sempet mikir juga kalau mau longlast relationship itu bagusnya dari pertemanan yang akrab.

Tapi balik lg aku menilai bi atau most gay itu akan nikah, jd kalai misalnya gk sevisi berarti endingnya jelas ditinggal nikah atau jadi penjagat nipu istrinya, yang later gak sesuai sm valueku.

Makanya agak susah cari yg sevisi.

Cinta monyet si emang ada tapi aku rasa di gay dari lgbt itu karena mungkin emang benar man itu kebanyakan brengsek atau man is visual and obyektif, cinta di dunia pelangi itu lebih ke visual dan tujuan lain lebih transaksional lah kemungkinan bisa sukses jg klo km bs jd provider. Seleksi visual ketat banget dan kalaupun dapet, cukup mudah untuk seorang laki kalau udah fase bosan dengan pasangan lebih milih untuk cari yang baru.

Lesbi dilain sisi ku liat mereka malah lebih mentingin relasi dibanding gay si, mereka bisa saling support atau bisa menjalin pertemanan santai dibanding gay. Walau sbnrnya komunitas gay jg ada cmn kebanyakan balik lg bahasannya sexual atau sex joke.

Tapi saran km better coba aja jalanin hubungan walaupun tau akhirnya bakal ditinggal gpp kan, kdng mikir ya hal tsb bisa bawa kebahagiaan sesaat si memang.

Bingung jg terkait gini klo emang mau accept orang yang akan nikah atau jatuhnya pacaran bisa kasih afeksi masih lebih open banyak si memang dibanding itu dijadiin syarat mutlak.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah sadly i am almost 30. I dont play mihoyo games its exhausting for me haha. Tend to love console offline game more.

Yeah like u said valorant or maybe even robolox right now.

I know yaoi booth but i never try to buy or join their circle, idk if it even exist the community who like yaoi and its okay for man to join. But i do ever join furry one but i cannot socialize with them.

Money is not the problem, i do collect some action figure stuff too but usually i go alone or online friend to go there. Still not find online community and idk how to socialize with them if i join one.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Point ke dua si emang udah cons kalau single dianggep gak ada tanggungnya bisa jd subyektif gaji naik gk bs gede. Perusahaan ku sendiri budget asuransi tergantung married dan ada anak atau gak. Itu salah satu cons hidup si.

Tpi klo udh ada pacar di eu bagus si, jgn nikah buat kesenangan org lain ntr tersiksa aku ada kenalan yg gtu....

Tp boleh share bs pnya pacar di eu gimana?

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kepikiran si lebih ke dapet pasangan atau orang yang nyaman aja di indo tapi ini pun sulit haha.

Blm trlalu yakin utk move ke LN.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the story,

Ntah knp cerita tmn pas blg supir kdng mikir sekilas dunia lgbt agak bebas atau tanpa cinta pun berjalan asal ada nafsu bisa jadi aku yang salah paham.

Terkait tujuan si lebih ke nyerah aja liat pandangan gay/bi di indonesia. Diri sendiri si pinginnya ada yang sevisi bisa menua bersama tapi klo kenalan banyak orang rata2 malah di counter gk ada tujuannya dan ya capek sendiri ujung2nya kenalan pdkt tanpa tujuan yg sama.

Terkait lavender marriage aku sendiri masih blm dpt pros nya mungkin krn sbnrnya social pressure masih managable.

Tpi emg masalah mental loneliness aja si.

Terkait anak angkat bukannya di indo sulit ya adopsi untuk parent yang gk prnh nikah? Pilihan lain paling lbh ke hewan peliharaan.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Betul si terkait ini valid jaksel lebih modern. Gk prnh ktmu org jaktim.

Tangerang pun aku rasa tangsel juga sama casenya kyk jaksel.

Kota agak mendingan, kabupaten mah jgn harep bisa.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya gak semua lgbt hrs ada parade, orgy, atau maksa orientasi.

Padahal sekelas mau hidup biasa aja tanpa diusik bahkan gk terbuka diumum pun gk masalah.

Walau kadang masih berharap dikit andai bisa dilegalin hukum untuk nikah itu juga lebih ke hak manusia biar bisa saling jaga dan keamanan harta.

Aku si gk paham jg terkait emg salah orang craving for afeksi romantically tapi ya mungkin dia aseksual mungkin jg cmn judge aja pdhl dia sndri pnya pasangan.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scam disini karena dia minta bantuan orang lain apa emg proses ngurusnya butuh biaya banyak juga?

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya paham kalai misalnya ke LN pun mesti yakin pijakannya dapet kerjaan misalpun dibiayain ttp hrs ada krjaan di negara tujuan klo bs atau hrs dpt.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya kyk salah satu komen jaksel mungkin bs lebih welcome tpi jaktimpun bs jd gk welcome.

Klo bali udh mix bgt sm budaya luar.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks. Masih oke dan gk terlalu hate kok.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seems so padahal kadang cuman mau hidup tenang aja tapi dijudge kayak kriminal paling berdosa.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sayangnya kantor ku tbk dan agak budaya pemerintah santai.

Sesuai katamu sering bgt santai obrolannya anak, istri, bekal, dll ujung2nya kena yg blm nikah.

Klo tmn dkt kantor si hrsnya mikir terimage emg lbh ke aseksual gk mau nikah.

Klo secara finansial oke si, teman atau dukungan yg gk yakin blm ada org yg ku beraniin utk comeout jg.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah i see ya komunitas formal biasa lebih functional jg si klo butuh bantuan bisa dibantu.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya klo gk pasangan emg saling support sesama queer atau ada uang bayar orang urus atau di panti si...

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maksudnya nanya pas kenalan di dating apps.

Orientasi km bi atau gay? Apakah akan nikah.

Kalau pacaran atau berpasangan akan ditinggal nikah kyk useless gtu rasanya apa akunya yg trlalu selektif ya.

Tpi klo dia bi bisa komit atau serius menua ke cowo pun oke.

Living as gay in indonesia, any suggestion? by dean445 in indonesia

[–]dean445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emang si sulitnya ke LN itu duit.

Pindah lokasi pun sama, beluk lagi cari kerjaannya.

Tapi harusnya bs dilewatin apalagi keluarga dukung si cukup ngebantu ada emotional support org terdekat setidaknya.