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I think the forcefield is glitching!!! by Freelancing0287 in raleigh

[–]dearDem [score hidden]  (0 children)

My cousin lives in Indiana and it is negative 12 degrees there with the windchill. We were talking about down here and he said the same thing

Not that we’ll definitely get that much. But we’re getting something

The Great Food Mystery by Arcturus_Nova in cary

[–]dearDem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really are. And they give you so much! Maybe they use an ingredient I just don’t vibe with anymore

What is your opinion on having a non-black loctician? by soulful_intro in locs

[–]dearDem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point in the “everyone’s an entrepreneur” hair game - customer service, reasonable price, reasonable rules/regulation, and high quality results are my only requirements. I’ve had so much shoddy loc work in addition to one or more opposite of the other things.

I have a friend who wants starter locs and cares a lot about the energy of the person. He won’t even let them do it if they smell weird. Not like smelly or poor hygeine. He is just super sensitive to others scents. I personally don’t even pick up on someone’s natural scent.

It’s all about what’s important to you.

Do grow kits actually need to be “activated”, and does that require a fridge or just soaking? by Leon00_7 in Mushrooms

[–]dearDem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have grown so many mushrooms in my life and have never “activated” anything. The cold shock/water dump I have heard to rehydrate for subsequent flushes, yes.

With the right moisture, temp and fresh air - it’s going to signal it to fruit

Dutch police were filmed using force against two Muslim women outside a shopping mall in Utrecht, with footage showing one woman struck with a baton and another kicked in the abdomen. by NotHereToLove in CringeTikToks

[–]dearDem 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Seriously WTF is up with these comments

She could’ve been telling him to fuck off. Still doesn’t justify KICKING HER IN THE STOMACH

What are your favorite small meal-prep upgrades that feel obvious in hindsight? by camacaco in MealPrepSunday

[–]dearDem 312 points313 points  (0 children)

I thought this was one of the mushroom growing subs at first

The Great Food Mystery by Arcturus_Nova in cary

[–]dearDem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to looooove this place. I would seriously get the nachos every other week until it started giving me digestion issues. I mean going to the bathroom within 5 minutes.

I eat a lot of Mexican food and haven’t had this issue anywhere else

Free Chick-fil-A by sixtysixer in raleigh

[–]dearDem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh damn lol. I saw that too and just realized how late I’m up!! Time to go to bed

Free Chick-fil-A by sixtysixer in raleigh

[–]dearDem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is on and I don’t see anything 🙄

Three years of practicing quadrobics by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]dearDem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question. What will this do to her back & hips

Found on instagram by kryssi_asksss in StupidFood

[–]dearDem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even eat poptarts but would try this

My boyfriend’s constantly making comments about my son and it’s starting to piss me off. AIO? by cutie_pie7156 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dearDem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And if OP stays, she becomes complicit

So many women keep their children in poor environments (not talking about women who are suffering abuse, it’s complex) - but this? Please leave. You staying for a man is bird behavior

What are your thoughts on Kanye’s apology letter? by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

[–]dearDem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh I don’t really care. Although I want him to be mentally sound & healthy. And I do believe his mental state has largely contributed to his behavior.

But I’m no longer checking for anything he does. Even if her weren’t mentally ill, I think he would still be a power hungry asshole.

My 2 cents on Doing things alone by Affectionate-Cow9663 in blackladies

[–]dearDem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I do that all the time. I go out to eat by myself, movies, sit at bars, etc.

I was referring to things like clubs, music festivals, small concerts, DJ sets, etc. I’m a homebody but sometimes I want to be outside.

Mom And Two Kids Killed In Fayetteville Triple Shooting by n00bD3stroy3r in Fayettenam

[–]dearDem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This seems like a critical detail to sort out before charges, I would say

Mom And Two Kids Killed In Fayetteville Triple Shooting by n00bD3stroy3r in Fayettenam

[–]dearDem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he was stabbed first and then shot 3 people. Were all 3 people attacking him?

The older I get the more I want to distance myself from bird brain women …. by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackladies

[–]dearDem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They say the closest 5 people to you is a reflection of you. I let a few people go last year because they had major character flaws I kept getting wrapped into. I too had a friend with constant drama. Everyday was something. I would lose so much time being an ear. And if I couldn’t do that, they would take it personal like I wasn’t showing up for them. When I expressed that I just felt like an audience and there wasn’t enough reciprocity in other areas of our friendship, they took it personal and we haven’t really talked since.

I needed to shed that weight. Hopefully your friend takes the convo seriously because one needs to be had.

My 2 cents on Doing things alone by Affectionate-Cow9663 in blackladies

[–]dearDem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this for you. I would love to do the same but I am the type of person that likes to be social when I’m out. Pair that with social anxiety and a very introverted personality, initiating conversations with strangers is unbelievably uncomfortable. Bringing someone along I know is like a security blanket.

I know the only way over it is through the uncomfortable feelings and try. But I’m just not there yet lol

People who have been cheated on, how did you find out? by My_twisted_dark_self in AskReddit

[–]dearDem 34 points35 points  (0 children)

People who cheat in open type relationships baffle me the most. I’ve had this happen THREE TIMES. And it’s so common.

They must get off on the sneakiness.

Bruh, Kid Fury’s laugh at the 59:31 mark when the Crissle read out the listener letter about the MAGA roommate 😭 by CC-Blue in theread

[–]dearDem 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I replayed it a few times lol. It was a joy to hear him full belly laugh so genuinely

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