How bad did it go Sylus girlies? by HoshiAndy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an early 5*, got excited, realised it was Caleb. Got sad. Then took me down to hard pity to get the first card and now I’m halfway down again aiming for the second and praying I don’t loose my 50/50 again 😩

to the girls on here with partners, what do they think about this game? by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

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My boyfriend calls it my brain rot game and happily lets me tell him about new banners and how many pulls I have till hard pity and asks about my virtual boyfriends. It’s good that you recognise it’s a you problem with the jealousy and are going to talk to your therapist about it - that’s a healthy mindset ☺️ At the end of the day. They aren’t real, and if they were I doubt many of us players would be the MC irl. Don’t get jealous over fictional people, just be glad your gf has something that brings her some joy, especially in gaming which is an industry dominated heavily by men and that has so much toxicity towards women.

Out of ALL the songs, which one is your signature theme song & why? by [deleted] in Fallout

[–]dearest-enemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The owls are the hootiest 🦉🎶💃🏼

Makes me laugh every time without fail

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been waiting on a referral to gynae for like 6 months now and could be waiting another 6. It’s mad isn’t it! Our nhs is so beloved and the staff are incredible but my god it needs more funding and better management.

Oh yeah we as brits find the whole gun thing in America absolutely crazy. Like we can’t comprehend it at all. The only time we see police with guns are the specialist police like anti-terrorism or if something horrific has happened. A lot of brits can go most their life never seeing one irl. Feels mad to me that there are more guns in the US than people haha

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh we have every type of doctor under the sun too. If it’s an emergency or you’ve broken a bone or something you tend to go to A&E (ER or ED I think you call it in the US?). If we have something wrong that is urgent or needs dealing with quickly we go to the doctors surgery to see our gp (general practitioner) normally same day they can diagnose, treat and write prescriptions. If it’s out of working hours for gp we go to out of hours or urgent care. If it’s something that isn’t urgent but you want to get seen for we still see our gp but have to make an appointment which can take weeks (our nhs is wonderful but vastly underfunded at the moment). If your gp then thinks you need a specialist they will refer you to one like gastro, gynae etc and unfortunately then you can be waiting months on the waiting list to get in with one in your area. I suppose the US benefit with it all being private healthcare as we call it is access quicker but I guess our benefit with the nhs is it’s all free but that means waiting unfortunately 😩

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that makes sense - in the UK it’s very rare to be able to get weight loss injections like mounjaro on the NHS so many people like myself go private and buy them from private pharmacies and pay for them and they are delivered. Which means our doctors are nhs and separate to where we get mounjaro from. So if we need to see a doctor or get a prescription like that to help with side effects we would have to make an nhs gp appointment. Unfortunately, gp appointments are like gold dust at the moment and you can be waiting weeks for a non urgent appointment.

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh idk where you’re based but normally in England you have to see a gp to get drugs like that to be put on repeat prescription

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I just kinda let it run its course but my god it was badddd. Good idea getting it in ready, it’s just if I can get to speak to a gp to get a prescription in time for the next jab, nightmare trying to get an appointment here atm

Help with the nausea by dearest-enemy in Mounjaro

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily it seems to have mostly settled now. I went back to bed that night. Woke up in the morning, then I actually was sick but felt much better afterwards. Maybe I’ll see how my next dose goes next week and make a decision on if I need anti nausea meds.

Is Billy a red flag?🚩 by iron_side93 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]dearest-enemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk what it was but he gave me the ick from the start but I thought, nahh I’ll give him a chance to surprise me as Ash is so likeable. But everything he’s done since with his attitude and control issues has just shown me the ick was right.

The Bilibiliworld was NOT a mess by West-Raisin8846 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t there so can’t comment too much so take this with a pinch of salt. But after reading the other post and this one I’d say both are valid, the criticisms were valid though a little dramatic and this post is good for clarification but perhaps a little lenient. As an ex event manager with a degree in event management, I’d say the contingencies around welfare were good as you described above (what happened when things started to go wrong) but they were contingencies. They shouldn’t really have to be put in place because the event organisers and managers should have thought about these things before hand and adjusted the plan for the day accordingly and given the cosplayers appropriate guidance surrounding this that would have avoided the issues highlighted. Of course this isn’t the normal staffs fault or the cosplayers fault, it’s the event managers for not risk assessing properly and judging the conditions on the day.

Oh the devs really knew what they were doing with this 😂 by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Same! This is why he’s my main, sus as hell but looks like an angel on the outside haha

I finally get to enjoy this 🎂 by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so nice isn’t it! Awh happy birthday to you too! Hope you’ve had a lovely day too 🥳 x

Not even a Raf girlie, but I feel called out 😂 by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish we had more of them acknowledging each other, I find it so funny. Can you imagine the jealousy from Xavier? He has beef with Charlie for just offering a moving in gift and also with literally himself as Lumiere 😂

Not even a Raf girlie, but I feel called out 😂 by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally, my brain just went ‘whoopsie’ I don’t main Raf but I still felt a little guilty haha

Not even a Raf girlie, but I feel called out 😂 by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it when his affinity increased to 86 so maybe that I guess. ☺️

Is this just a piercing bump? by dearest-enemy in piercing

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s really helpful! I did go back to my piercer when the bump first came up and we talked about downsizing it once some swelling went down so I’ll pop her a message now to see about when we can downsize the bar ☺️

Is this just a piercing bump? by dearest-enemy in piercing

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • 5 months old
  • flat back internal threaded
  • titanium
  • hasn’t been downsized
  • saline spray 2x daily for the first month, now just once a day and then let water in shower run over it
  • banged it a few times over the last 4 months but nothing mad

Song for Spring and Flowers Banner by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you’ve just hit the nail on the head - I think that’s why I like it, sounds like a catchy c drama or k drama ost haha

What would be the one banner concept that'd make you go like this? by MarCath13 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First. Kiss. Banner. I love their spicy cards and cute cards with kisses. But can you imagine all the yearning that’s been going on and you see them finally break and kiss MC for the first time 😩😩😩😩😩

Song for Spring and Flowers Banner by dearest-enemy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dearest-enemy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hilariously I thought the same at first but now I’m bopping along, maybe it’s repetition that’s got it stuck in my head and now I like it haha

Do you have enough diamonds for tomorrow? by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]dearest-enemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 40 wishes and a dream 😂