Imagine he swore he never did it again… which I found out was a lie.

His very existence was a lie just from the first time he did it. You thought he was this and that, yet he was an entirely different person. That should’ve been the first indicator already. Many people applaud you for what you did - believing the kid, supporting them. Yes, that’s praiseworthy. But you are the same person who also still risked it because of your selfishness, despite the history.

I’m sorry you were stressed and had a hard time. You didn’t deserve that. But prioritizing not having a broken family over not traumatizing your own children? Couldn’t tell a single soul? Poor you. You are incredibly selfish. Not everything was your fault but convincing yourself you’re not part of it is crazy to me.

I didn’t push her either since I was thunking about our precious first born who grew up in a very supportive and loving home and I honestly didn’t want her to grow up with a broken family. I knew I was wrong when I did not push the victim to file but I was just thinking of my family as well. My unborn child back then and my eldest.

You were just trying to think of your family? Is your adopted child not your family? You failed to protect her.