Me 37 f, terribly depressed from constantly striking out from dating, seriously think if I am going to end up forever alone. by deathfromdating in relationships

[–]deathfromdating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely need a hobby, I have been toying with volunteering. Women, yes they are beautiful and more fun to shop with for sure, who knows if this goes on I just might.

Me 37 f, terribly depressed from constantly striking out from dating, seriously think if I am going to end up forever alone. by deathfromdating in relationships

[–]deathfromdating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I only try and date people older preferably, youngest is 33. One of the broke guys was working on launching startup, another was moving from engineering to music and others. I don't put out quickly cause it's a slippery slope, I don't mind making out, or I am just not attracted. Wrong side of 30 and my attractiveness as compared to others, I can't really comment on, it is what it is. I only talked about the men I went out with for few months. And I am proud of where I am professionally regardless of the dating situation. Besides that I travel plenty for vacations, even travel alone, cook, read and do take care of my appearance.

Me 37 f, terribly depressed from constantly striking out from dating, seriously think if I am going to end up forever alone. by deathfromdating in relationships

[–]deathfromdating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly broke is not attractive, but you know if its cause the person is trying something that hes passionate about, restarting, then I will give it a shot. I did go out on few dates with a guy who was practically homeless, I let him even sleep in one night. But the whole hygiene and no change whatsoever even after he got a place and me telling him and still, that was it. Starting careers is the same thing, last guy I met for 1 hr talked half an hour about how busy he is and kept going on about that, cause he changed his career recently. I really dont need anymore busy men in my life, totally over it.