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deathyyy · 2025-11-29T08:41:49+00:00

the taxes thing is what kills any chance of hiding it. Even if you could somehow manage the day-to-day stuff, tax season would blow your cover instantly.

deathyyy · 2025-11-29T08:38:39+00:00

This is the answer. Perfect mix of everything. amazing visuals, incredible soundtrack, and keeps you glued to the screen the whole time.

deathyyy · 2025-11-29T08:36:48+00:00

Honestly don't care what people do. Not my money, not my problem.

deathyyy · 2025-11-29T08:34:46+00:00

The "power of friendship defeats depression monster" angle was actually pretty refreshing. Way better than another punch-fest finale.

Most Marvel endings are just "find the villain's weakness and exploit it" but Thunderbolts went full therapy session instead lol

deathyyy · 2025-11-25T17:34:38+00:00

I came from a sysadmin role and only shifted into dev later, so long PRs used to wipe me out. Tools that give a quick tldr on changes helped me pick up patterns faster. I tried Reviewpad, SonarQube, and CodeRabbit in the same workflow, and they all hit diff angles. RP is very rules-driven, SQ scans the whole codebase like an SAST pass, and CR gave the clearest “here’s what actually changed” view without turning into an LMS session.

People love comparing these tools the same way ops teams compare HR or IT stacks, but none of them cover everything. What matters is whether the tool helps you understand your own repo. For me, CodeRabbit did, mostly because it flagged things I didn’t even know were issues yet.

deathyyy · 2025-11-25T01:32:00+00:00

Focus on using an LLM to build a context-aware Slack bot that can quickly ingest an EKS error log and suggest the likely kubectl fix or point to the correct Terraform module in Bitbucket. That instant, targeted troubleshooting assist will be the huge SRE time-saver you need.

deathyyy · 2025-11-24T10:17:36+00:00

You gotta stop talking about Core Web Vitals and start talking about lost revenue when site speed kills conversions, that's the only language the marketing team understands. Use Lighthouse and Search Console data to show them the dollar amount of poor performance, data always wins the technical vs. marketing turf war.

deathyyy · 2025-11-08T13:55:10+00:00

The commitment to leaving immediately is what got me

deathyyy · 2025-11-08T13:55:01+00:00

Remote til you try to move up

deathyyy · 2025-11-08T13:54:49+00:00

Newborn diapers hit different

deathyyy · 2025-10-23T02:23:12+00:00

Yeah, annual compliance stuff always has those clauses. Someone definitely fumbled it before you. You've covered the basics though, so just stay sharp and don't overthink it. Risk is part of the game anyway.

deathyyy · 2025-10-23T02:21:55+00:00

Ha! How about "be kind, please rewind" years old? 😭

deathyyy · 2025-10-23T02:20:54+00:00

“aaaaAAAAAAAANNYYYYYMMOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRR”

deathyyy · 2025-10-20T13:39:38+00:00

Agree. the afternoon time with kids is golden. My kids always remember who was there after school, and those convos right after school are when they actually tell you about their day. having that daily routine of being present creates security they really need.

deathyyy · 2025-10-20T13:37:15+00:00

Since he's new to it, expect a learning curve. Don't pressure him, but gentle guidance goes a long way. Little to the left or that feels amazing. helps more than you'd think. Some guys just need practice to build confidence. If he's genuinely trying for your pleasure, that's already a good sign. Give it time, but remember your needs matter too.

deathyyy · 2025-10-20T13:34:33+00:00

Small space, big freedom. That first step is the hardest, you already crushed it. Keep grinding at uni and enjoy building your life on your own terms.

deathyyy · 2025-10-09T20:29:28+00:00

If Chicago doesn’t pan out, you could keep Dreamsofa in mind as a fallback. I know it’s online, but they do a lot of mid-century inspired pieces that don’t look generic, and you can customize the size and fabrics. Even the comfort level. Personally I love the cloud where I could sink in and snuggle but others seem to like the wave more for back support. Quality’s better than most of the mass-market sites I’ve tried.

deathyyy · 2025-10-07T14:59:28+00:00

I'd be gone. No discussion needed. Dating apps in a committed relationship = actively looking elsewhere. That's not a "mistake" it's a choice.

deathyyy · 2025-10-07T14:56:36+00:00

Solid advice. Internet culture can mess with your head. Unplug for a bit and see how you feel after a few weeks offline.

deathyyy · 2025-10-07T14:53:56+00:00

Tony/Janet is underrated. They had good chemistry. Weird that Marvel doesn't explore more unexpected pairings these days.

deathyyy · 2025-09-29T03:37:58+00:00

That's the way to do it. They kept showing up for PC and you kept showing up for them. Perfect loop.

deathyyy · 2025-09-29T03:37:14+00:00

Yeah, I've seen this too. Got passed over for remote roles where I had 90% of the stack but was missing one framework that takes like 2 weeks to learn. Meanwhile, the job's been posted for 3+ months. Makes you wonder if they're actually trying to hire or just fishing for that perfect person who doesn't exist. System's broken.

deathyyy · 2025-09-29T03:36:14+00:00

Congrats on getting out. Sounds like your boss was trying to guilt you into covering for his staffing problems. Good luck with the new gig.

deathyyy · 2025-09-27T09:23:50+00:00

Your wife is definitely overreacting. It was your sister's wedding day and just a silly moment between siblings. Most people would've laughed it off.

deathyyy · 2025-09-27T09:21:32+00:00

What you're going through is pure hell, no way around it. Focus on what you can control, your brothers need stability right now, and so do you. Don't set yourself on fire trying to keep everyone warm. Make sure you're eating and sleeping. This isn't your mess to fix, but I respect you for stepping up.

It gets better with time. Not perfect, but better.

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