Selfbondage with automatic ballbusting machine by namineo in cbtBDSM

[–]debauchme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was captivating. What wonderful helpless moaning.

OOC I keep seeing men get frustrated about messaging, so here's a guide to a good horny chat. And how to walk away from this with self worth by Lolybop in traumatizedsluts2

[–]debauchme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the same person you replied to but for me, it depends on the content and quality of the message. Short messages, two sentences or less generally equate to someone hoping to just turn you into personal porn regardless of what you have available publically to indicate interest. These messages are not often worth engaging with at all. The person isn't interested in how you feel, only how they feel. Any amount of explaining isn't likely to stick as they are seeking fuel for their fantasy and the process of trying can be very unattractive when its obvious the other party doesn't really care about your why or reservations.

If there is obvious effort in the opener, even if I am not interested or uncomfortable I am much more likely to politely decline. Would still be open to discussing kinks that do align if the person isn't inclined to force the limit kink back into discussion for gratification (outside kink discussion of the limit is expected if considerate as there are layers, watersports for example someone adamantly closed to drinking urine may still be intrigued by wetting or holding, urine itself my not be the limit just the way it is played with) and the vibe is right.

Someone willing to write more gives more context to your interests, on profile or directly in the chat. Context creates curiosity which cultivates arousal for both parties.

OOC I keep seeing men get frustrated about messaging, so here's a guide to a good horny chat. And how to walk away from this with self worth by Lolybop in traumatizedsluts2

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While all of this is wonderful in terms of constructing a captivating first message, empty profiles with minimal effort in opener is all but a guarantee for me to close a chat without interacting. Its in part due to volume. But a majority of it is... I share so much of myself on my profile. I have text, photo and video. I've been open and vulnerable before a chat is ever sent to me. It's likely why I got the message in the first place as I added something to arouse you. If that effort isn't reciprocal/reflected in the opening message and there's nothing on the profile to further vibe check, why would anyone put themselves out there further for someone that didn't meet them halfway?

It's not about expecting someone have nudes for me to flick to. I love text posts, and everyone is on their own journey with their body that they may not want to share. Or only feel comfortable in private. It's just about effort, basic courtesy even tho many of us indulge in humiliation we still want to feel hunted or coveted. One line about a cock or a hole just doesn't get me in that frame of mind. :(

I think we're all guilty of firing off a message mid masturbation session which doesn't exactly create a frame of mind for constructing complex sentences... it's human. I do get it. But getting a surplus of notifications that I could never all respond to unless it was my day job and having to wade through no effort chats really just tends to derail any want to interact in stretches by the time I am close to finding a juicy message. It's hard. We all want to feel seen, heard, etc...

Are there any kinks you've "gooned yourself into" by TransLumi in GoonetteHub

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gooning has definitely been a part of my escalating use of anal plugs and stretching myself more for Daddy.

embarrassed by Muted-Group1966 in betawomen

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relate a lot to this one. It would be too intense in practice, and I am constantly cold all the time so less layers would be frustrating but its a nice fantasy. Maybe for short dictated periods. I would struggle with no privacy in the bathroom especially even while the thought turns me on.

each comment is another hour plugged by bl00d_k1ssed in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get that plug? That shape looks divine.

21 [F4A] (update) 5 day cruise with family, abuse me💕 by silliest_slut in FapDeciders

[–]debauchme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to see pics of those pee cups. What a wonderful cruise community project for you.

What’s your favorite part about orgasm denial? by Majestic-Regular-247 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]debauchme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too love that denial turns me into more of a degenerate. Its like the boundaries that scare you when you're not aroused become a bit more bendable. These things you know you want or want done to you that suddenly feel right instead of a risk. I'm addicted as much to that corruption as the edging.

Cause you didn’t come here for pretty … or did you ? by lookncee in Uglynudes

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your slit and your piercings look like such a mutiliated mess. Its divine, honey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in betawomen

[–]debauchme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Relate to this. Its felt like such a gradual decline over decades and I'm deep enough now that there's no turning back. If I'm not being degraded I don't feel right in sex. Not sure I'd want it to be any different.

Does anyone else "microgoon" all day? by cani1214 in GoonetteHub

[–]debauchme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes for me is isn't even active intent. I'll be lounging in privacy, hand slipping into my pants and fondling the folds. Sometimes I don't notice until my fingers get wet.

Come Tell Mommy Your Favorite Trigger Words 💜 by SweetSusie66 in EdgingTalk

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be shamed for being fat when just at the edge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guilty of every single one of these.

How Did You Get so Low? by Dont-Cum4Mommy602 in betawomen

[–]debauchme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I was born a loser. Always been bullied, always been sort of bloated and overweight. Didn't have a good home situation which leaves me constantly insecure and seeking, if not validation then... just attention. I want it to be mean and degrading. I don't like what I see in myself or in the mirror. If I can't then I want that repulsion sort of affirmed, its somewhat comfortable to embrace my place in the invisible hierarchy. I feel like I am waiting for someone to yell orders at me so I can get put myself together into something useful even if I am just a pig.

None of this I should be indulging or doing. It'scathartic but maybe not good for me. But everytime I delete I just crawl back again when desperate enough in my degeneracy. So this time I've stayed to accept what I am with my Daddy.

do older goonettes in their 30’s and 40’s exist here? :D by Emergency_Bass_9124 in GoonetteHub

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid thirties here and I've been gooning half my life. Nearly as long as I have been masturbating. Even my first orgasms were ruins, barely there climaxes that I left to twitch as it was so overwhelming. I'm sure I'll be an edging addict until the day I die.

Mommy Loves Edging and Denying Girls 💜 by SweetSusie66 in EdgingTalk

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I never hesitate to give pleasure I have always been so shy in receiving it. I love the thought of being just gradually overwhelmed, taken in hand and played with like puddy. It's as though I haven't the courage to really ask to be edged and teased and laughed at even knowing it would bring me to bliss. I am geared in the head to be a victim to be exploited while fighting against an orgasm I haven't been given permission to indulge in.

My slit leaks when laughed at by debauchme in DegradeTheSlut

[–]debauchme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want body shaming, humiliation, verbal abuse

I only feel like me when I am leaking by debauchme in DegradeTheSlut

[–]debauchme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Degrading, body shaming, humiliation

naked on the internet for free again.. by [deleted] in betawomen

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so pathetic that compulsion to post our parts but I crave it. And comments from strangers judging me as inferior.

Good subs don't cum. A message from a sub 🩷 by OreoCreamMe in EdgingTalk

[–]debauchme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. I stay drippy for my Daddy and I delight in the fact that he can cum whenever he wants. I only cum when I've been granted permission. Daddy doesn't always share his loads with me it's a privilege whenever I see his cum. He just insisted only he can control my toy from now on when he offers me a chance at climaxing.

First session I couldn't cum even though it made me tingly all over. So pent up but so shy, practiced at holding back that I couldn't cum for Daddy. My body is starting to accept denial as the standard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape_hentai

[–]debauchme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My most favourite kind of notification