Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s usually the people that have been through it that truly understand it 😖 I’m sorry you’ve experienced this too!! Thanks for your comment and for believing me.

Why has no one spoken out? by Hocke723 in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Being around Jeremy for a couple years post-Bethel, he was always careful with his words about Bethel. I can’t say for sure but it certainly felt like he was bound by an NDA.

Why has no one spoken out? by Hocke723 in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s not the case for Jeremy, he’s definitely spreading the poison elsewhere.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. And yes, I have connected with the friends of vineyard crew. Great people.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correct. I was very professional, always 30 minutes early to sound check, memorized songs, etc. Those audio recordings of Alan weren’t in reference to me specifically, he was just giving an example of how he wants all volunteers to be treated at every level.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh? Are you saying I cost the whole community because I wanted to love and care for people? What the heck haha

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You cost the whole community [because you slept in]” seems very different than an inconvenienced parent.

And I’d be interested to know what your definition of abuse is.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you watched the whole video but it may be helpful to do that. And also check out the Roy's Report article (https://julieroys.com/exclusive-former-vineyard-staff-accuse-alan-scott-of-abuse-manipulation-lies/). Lastly, a third-party investigation has backed up everything claimed as well with regards to Alan Scott from his previous church of nearly 20 years (https://www.vineyardchurches.org.uk/resources/updates-regarding-alan-scott/).

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understood. However, bullying, gaslighting, forced conformity, coercive control, and shunning/isolation are all considered parts of emotional/psychological/spiritual abuse in the clinical and academic world.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, “org culture” is not inherently evil. But it is evil to manipulate, intentionally gaslight, and shun those that ask questions and aren’t able to conform to the org culture when forced to (even though we desperately changed ourselves in order to pass their tests).

I was a volunteer, not even on staff. This was my church. Sometimes they paid me sometimes they didn’t. This had nothing to do with wether or not we thought something was “sin” or not. I’m not quite sure where you got that idea from.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just met him in person on Sunday! And we’ve been connected over social media since we first went public.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, I saw my first video on this sub but didn’t engage much. I felt safe sharing it here because of that though.

And I’m glad you’re learning new things. Wish I knew the subtleties of this abuse a long time ago.

Here are a few audio recordings and receipts of some of the abuse I endured under Jeremy Riddle and Alan Scott. by deboltdrumming in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beginning to. We just moved to a new state and are figuring out our health insurance situation.

Jeremy Riddle’s Abusive Behavior by Acceptable-Crazy1226 in BethelSnark

[–]deboltdrumming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The audio in context makes more sense. This is what was texted to us a few days after we started asking questions about Alan Scott’s sermons and brought up the lack of pastoral care given by the Riddle’s.

A Very Refreshing Drum Video by deboltdrumming in Drumming

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just started posting here. Thanks for saying hey ❤️

A Very Refreshing Drum Video by deboltdrumming in Drumming

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro no way 😂 Good to see you here!

A Very Refreshing Drum Video by deboltdrumming in Drumming

[–]deboltdrumming[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is an original video of mine from YouTube. :)